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CHAIN LETTER Mood

Tuesday, May 13, 2008 | A Painful story

I KNOW HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS BUT THIS CHAIN LETTER THING REALY HAS HURT ME DEEPLY. I CAME TO THIS SITE TO GET HELP AND IF AT ALL POSSIBLE HELP OTHERS.I CAN'T BELIEVE SOME ONE WOULD THINK I WOULD DELEBERATELY HURT THEM..

I WENT OFF LINE FOR A FEW HOURS ABD TALKED TO MY HUSBAND.MAYBE I WAS DUMB IN SENDING THE LETTER BUT GOD I WAS NOT CRUEL. MAYBE I SHOULD JUST LEAVE DS. I WILL NOT RISK HURTING ANY ELSE.

I AM OVER SENSITIVE ABOUT THINGS AND EASILY HURT. SO I NEVER HURT ANY ONE

KATHY LOVE

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In addition to my personal message to you, I am also replying here....You were not dumb.....if people don't want what they see as "a chain letter" great.......that is their choice......but to take it as a personal offense, or something that has set some one back emotionally is about the silliest notion there is......there must be couple of million of these around and most every person I know sees them for what they are.....fun and ha ha ......and if one chooses to answer why not......if one chooses not to why not......So stop the dumb on yourself,,,and put it were it belongs the person and or people who are making a big deal about an "fun pass along to let you know Iam thinking about you",.....love and hugs

VeganGal
I do agree with VeganGal. As you know from my messages to you that I think those letters are silly. I know that it could cause some to have flash-backs that are connected to chain letters but each of us has to learn to deal with these in their own way. As I said in my message "Silly" I feel you are doing more damage to yourself by all this fuss'n'bother - why don't you take some time with your plants and take time away from the internet. loves and hugs

KCJ
I can be overly sensitive to, so I understand getting derailed by being accused of something that is so totally not in your character. I hope that you are able to let it go today and just understand that some people have problems that we do not understand. I don't even understand the flashback from KCJ...it is only an e-mail. I guess I don't understand how something that is meant for amusement can become so harmful to someone. Obviously no one is intending it to be anything other than amusement. There was nothing wrong in sending it and it was up to them to explain their problem to you. If they cannot do that, more is the pity for them. But YOU are blameless/

Nanoe
I really think she was the one being overly sensitive in this matter,and I really would hate to see you leave here because of her over reaction to a chain letter.
Your a lovely person and I know you did nothing wrong here,it will pass soon if it hasn't already.
Huge Hugs For You!

sadeygreen
Kathy...don't beat yourself up over this chain letter. All these chain emails are mean't to be for fun, so just take any unwanted comments as a pinch of salt...I do! and if theres anything i don't like myself, i just ignore it! I agree with "sadegreen" you've done nothing wrong at all...CHEER-UP Kathy...HUGS

astra1547
Kathy...don't beat yourself up over this chain letter. All these chain emails are mean't to be for fun, so just take any unwanted comments as a pinch of salt...I do! and if theres anything i don't like myself, i just ignore it! I agree with "sadegreen" you've done nothing wrong at all...CHEER-UP Kathy...HUGS

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