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I so want this over. Never to see him again. It just gets worse.
I had a big graduation party for my youngest and STBX came and from what I heard in the next several days he just ripped me apart and made up more lies about me. Said he never had an affair. I have the emails and the cell phone bills. I should carry them with me and pull them out when people ask me what is going on. Keep in mind this party was in my home.
I guess they just slept in the same bed in the 5* hotel and talked. I am not that stupid. He actually thinks people are believing him.
Just let me get through this and rid of him. His OW can have him. I will even gift wrap him for her.
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I know how you feel. I know I am over him. I do not even want to see or talk to him unless I have to. Thanks for the support on my journal entry.
unbelpensiero
You know, he's in the wrong & is looking to recapture some of his dignity that was trounced when your story broke & the divorce was news to family & friends. Mine did the same thing. I think they are in denial. Don't worry. The people that truly matter know the score. People are going to think what they will. I lost friends when I filed for divorce, but the people who really mattered in my life hung in there with me. My divorce is basically settled except for the court date to file all the paperwork & stand in front of the judge so she can pronounce us divorced. Your day is coming. You'll be surprised how quickly it will go. One piece of advice I would give you is, if possible, stuff the hurt, betrayal & bitterness down when you deal with him on divorce issues. Make it business, then let it out with friends, family & therapist! It worked for me to get a settlement that was something I could live with & finished just short of a year. Early in the divorce I railed & sent emails spewing bitterness & only recieved like in return. That's perfectly normal. Then I realized we weren't getting anywhere. That's when I refused to be baited by him. Things went better. Just a suggestion. Each divorce is different & you are hurting so much right now, but think on it.
KLynn55
I think when they wake up, even if they are still with the OW/OM, the shame is what they can't deal with so they have to lie. Like Klynn said, to recapture some dignity, but people know the truth.
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