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lddixon (04/24/08)

Hi there.. You doing okay? How is the fibro? What is this about not sleeping well? Do you want to elaborate a little? I used to have the same problem until I made some changes and now sleep much better. I'm here if you need anything. Deb

rrowley (04/08/08)

Beave, Thank you for the suggestion. Hon, I have tried it all. When she comes back into my life she's good for a few months and then the second I refuse to "do what she wants" me to it is back on again. She is determined to try to manipulate and control me. She got it honest. She is an almost exact carbon copy of my mother. My mother and I have no relationship at all due to her attempts to manipulate and control me. Jessica gets more like her every day. Jessica is angry with me this time b/c I won't participate in causing problems for her ex fiancee. She thinks I should hate him b/c he dumped her. I don't blame him for it. She treated him terribly. He took it and took it for 4 years. He recently discovered that he had heart problems due to excessive stress. She was a major factor in that. She is a drama queen who is always instigating arguments with him or me. To the outside world she appears so sweet and caring. They don't have to live with her. She is rude, nasty, lazy and completely disrespectful to those who live with her. I just thank God she has no children. I am afraid she would be abusive to them like my mother was to me. All I can do is pray for her. I no longer want or desire her company. I have had all I can take. I do believe that she is mentally ill but no one can help her if she refused to deal with it. She may just have to hit "rock bottom" before she faces the truth about herself. Hugs, Rhonda