I spoke to my son's therapist today and am feeling a little better, at least I will have a few things to research over the weekend to get me ready for the IEP. We will know for sure what the DX is on Monday, but for now, the therapist and I have pretty much ruled out ASD and ADD. We are thinking it might be ED, Chronic Fatigue, or lingering symptoms from toxic leukoencephalopathy from my son's exposre to mold in our home. The depression and withdrawl could exist on it's own, or be a result of low self esteem from feeling inferior to the other children in terms of energy. At least now I can come up with a game plan and questions I want to pose to the school regarding those things in particular. Another option, which will only come out on Monday would be a SLD found through the testing. Anyway, I am not feeling so boxed in and frustrated now....back to researching I go :-)