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  From archangels April 24

  Hello, I looked at your profile,i saw what you,d put,i.e incontinece,[my spellings bad cuz i,ve lost my bloody glasses!!]i have been incontinet all my life,i am now 46yr,s and i have been smacked for wetting myself i have been shocked i have had sooo many doctors tell my dad when i was a kid that i was lazy,so i got good at hiding it,with the help of my mum and late sister,when i was 27yr,s i had to have a hystorectomy,when the doctor came to see me the next day,he asked me;How long have you been incontinent? i tried to hide it but i,m not a good liar,he explained he had a special interest in urodynamic study,s,finally i opened up and showed him the scar,s i got from the so called treatment,s to stop me wetting myself,he was appalled but not surprised,after god know,s how many test,s,he told me i had a non functioning bladder,i was taught how to cathetirise myself,and i have had a super pubic cathitier to help,[didn,t work on me] finally i got wilm,s cancer,had my bladder removed in jan 07 ,i also have kidney problems,[had a kidney removed in '81] i was told i would no longer have kidney infection,s again! yeah right! i,m having a partial nephrectomy 6th may. Don,t be put off cuz of my history,keep looking and i would suggest you look up this problem and do as much reaserch as you can,don,t let any doctor tell you they know better than you, only you know what your body is like not him or her,if you want any more info let me know.regards shaz

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