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ther is so much new activity here i dont know where tostart.My legal seperation of so many years is turning into full blown divorce.......which is fine there has been no love or mutual respect here for years.
My daughter started her freshman year of college ans so far so good even after being dumped by her b/friend after 2+ years.
I met someone over the in ternet which is something i thought i would never do but regardless to say,anyone who knows me knows i have had this guy checked out throuhly..as a matter of fact,i am talking to another but really head over heals for the other...oh wellat my age.what do i have to lose?lol!.It beats the alterative which is death and depressipn,i dont know which one of the too is the lesser evil and care not to find out...they say that most long distance relationships stand a cold chance in hell of surviving let alone one who u meet from this wounderful world of cyberspace.
May i also add that my daughter also has a new love in her life,she life does really begin in college! I constantly remind her of ll those things she said such as "i am going to be alone for teh rest of my life"yada,yada,yada,
Still go back and forth to kaiserr and celebrated my 3rd year of being cancer free this sept 13th along with my b/day on the 12th.
In closing i jsut want to add i have rescued some more kittens although i said "never again"
NOt only was yesterday my birthday but today marks 3 years of being cancer free,which do ya thnk is appreciated most?
It has been again another busy time for me as my daughter started her freshman year of college and i don't think that it was as exciting asshe was hoping.
A lot of homework but you cant truly be a collegian without homework.She started the year already in a funk because herb/friend for 2+ years broke it off and it was weighing heavy on her mind.i try not to mention it any more because of the frustration,towards the end of this relationship,i had already started to dis like him as he was to controlling,demanding and was trying to get her to stand up to me so she could be more independent and have a later curfew...ain't going to happen.I told him that he had better watch his temper and get the hell out of my house and my daughter can become independent when she can afford her own place and her own bill's as well as her college education and when she leaves home.she leaves with the clothes on her back and that is more then what she came with...lokl!
If i have to hear this let's be friends crap one more time i am going to scream!what he really wants is a program with friends and privilidges....not!
Well on the brighter side,my daughter got he laptop yesterday,i bought her one cause she really needs it for college and now i have my own computer and don't have to wait in line or ask her to get off of mine....hip,hip,hooray!
hey did i mention that i have a new cute puppy named Panda Bear.he is a chacha....
Gotta run as i ahve rambled enough......god bless all!
it has been a while since i wrote,this i realize.but have been extremely busy and running all the time.
I had a foreign exchange student her for a month,she was from Germany,which made it really special a smy daughter has a great deal of interest in Germany and the german language.....they had a great deal in common and got along great...one small problem was the fact that no one told us that she was a vegetarian and we had done a lot of regular grocery shopping.....oh well!
she didn't care for most of my vegetarian dishes...me either...but loved my cole slaw and mac and cheese...of coarse the cole slaw was from kfc...lol!
she left this saturday ad we cried.we really miss her,dinner time was so funny...we always laughed at one thing or the other.
Everyday all we did was run,first in the morning was school and in the afternoon was an activity,then the trip to San Francisco twice and to Vallegho to animal world,or Mari8ne world.and the biggy.a 4 day stint to disneyland.....that my daughter went on and god what a mess....i was home alone for 4 day's....first the price of food was to be included in her fare and then that changes and she wans't told till they got there,thank gods we had money.....then when she went to one of the stores ther,they swipped her credit card to fast two many times and wells fargo froze her account...which in turn froze mine.which in turn froze hubby's which in turn frozr household account.i spent 1 1/2 hours on the phone as well as the internet trying to get help.when some one finally told me that i could not acces the nternet because when they froze my account that it froze all information leading to it...cut hah? Finally i got some one to listen to me and got the account un-froze and could relax a bit but not much as this was my daughter and as far as i was concerned,she was in the hands of an in-cometent!
During the mean time my husband is in the hospital where he stays for about 2 weeks so more running to do there...god am i exausted...i am totally drained.and to think,.he is the healthy one oif the two of us.
Then on tghe 8th i am checking my account on line and some one has charges over$300.dollars to a concert to be held in new York.....what a mess to strighten this out.as of todays writing still not done......
In the meantime,it is the 2nd day of my daughters return home when her b/f ask's her to go to lunch.she says.no need to stay home,he asks again,i say did you hear her,she said no and she needs to stay home anyways...with that he taps her on the leg.not once but twice.demands that she stand up to me and tell's me that she is 18 and can do what ever she wants.when she did not do so he angtily demander her to do so again,with this i told him not to be putting pressure om my daughter and in anger he yelled at me demanding an explanation of why she couldn't.i simply said i oew him nothing,he said yes you do and you are goine to tell me...i then orderded him out of my house and told him not to return.....ever! he stormen back in and once more informed me that i owed him an explanation and he would be back and we would discuss this and i told him not to bet on it,
2 day's later he called and broke it off with my daughter saying that i was trying to control him,i said huh?
yester day it finialized with my daughter telling him she would no go out with him again till he grew up...then today he want to know if she is still goint to a friends b/dy party and the answer to that...."not with you"
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