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LittleChildLost (08/07/08)

Come & take a look around A great Support Group http://dailystrength.org/groups/su...
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porada (07/07/08)

I am proud of your strength in leaving an abusive relationship. You are inspiring! I would love to stay in touch. A support group for victims of abuse is helpful. Also, reading on the topic will help you keep up your confidence and strength. PEACE!
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Willow56 (05/29/08)

aye........I sure hope you come back soon.......I could use a friend right about now? I need some advice and guidance. So please take this hug and know you are missed.
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terrys (05/24/08)

looking 4ward 2 the group
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terrys (05/24/08)

hope u r doing well
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RubyMcC (05/09/08)

Your mother is correct that journaling everything can be truly healing. This months "art project" for the group is actually a journal that will help you identify that various forms of abuse that you have endured. And NO you are not crazy. WE have all been there, and YOU are NOT alone. HUGS HUGS HUGS If you wish to see how I have utilized DS to journal everything feel free to read my January 5th journal, it organizes everything. (P.S. don't forget to post pictures of any evidence, that helped me when I reported it to the police)
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RubyMcC (05/09/08)

Have you spoken to a victims advocate about the abuse? All abuse starts with verbal and emotional abuse long before it ever becomes physical. An abuser will make sure that when they bruise you it is not visible, or you don't have any visible bruises to show. All we have left sometimes is the deep emotional scars that leave us feeling worthless, depressed, anxious, scared, terrified, hopeless, and that nobody could ever truly love us for who we are. It takes time to heal from abuse, and to realize that YOU are NOT worthless. YOU will not be lonely the rest of your life and that being alone does not have to be a bad thing. You can gain your inner strength and do things exactly how YOU want to do them without fear of reprisal. OH HUGS AND LOVE TO YOU!!
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RubyMcC (05/09/08)

Thank you for requesting to be my friend. It means a lot to me that you reach out and tell me that my group really does make a difference. I was reading through your journal and can see how your ex has some definite abuser traits. He is controlling through finances, emotionally, and physically. He harms the children and he verbally berates you and belittes you trying to make you feel absolutely worthless....well honey I have new for you. Guess what?! You ARE NOT crazy. You ARE a good mother, and YOU should be commended for moving forward, slowly but surely you will heal. You won't be the same person you were but you will be STRONGER. As one article I read said, "We don't realize how strong we realy, and don't realize what inner strength it takes to endure so much abuse". My friend, YOU are worth it. Try to stop communicating with him directly. Use your mother and other people to contact him so you can truly start to heal. Pat yourself on the back for getting out!! MY GOSH! YOU ARE FREE!!!!
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Anni48 (04/26/08)

More big hugs to you!!! I hope today was a better day1!! xoxo Anni
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Anni48 (04/24/08)

I hope things get better. Here's a hug back to you!!!! Anni