flutterbyfly’s Profile
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flutterbyfly
is feeling Excellent
Just "realizing"...
About Me
Hi to all my wonderful DS friends I had and have yet to meet. I am a single mom of 4 great kids, and will probably be going back to work at end of summer. Just living life one day at a time, hoping to pick up valuable lessons along the way, meet great people, and live life to the fullest.
Interests
My kids come first and foremost as far as anything! My 2 boys are 12 and 7, and my girls are 5 and 4. They keep me going and drive me crazy all at once! lol (And you all know what I'm talking about!) I love psychology, photography, flowers and gardening, decorating, sports, football, volleyball, good conversation, non-judgmental people, coffee, cigarettes (yeah yeah, i never should have started), my soaps (I blame it all on my momma!), good movies, and having fun!
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HAVE A GREAT HUMP DAY.. TERRY
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Hey Beautiful. Doing really good. Went to the lake yesterday and it was great. I really needed to get out of the house. Love you're new pic's.
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you just reminded me that I soooo need to empty out my memory card..LOL..it's been full for tooo long!
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Hey there sweetie! I'm good, time to relax. Sexy legs there missy!!!
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I'm good...LOL..I wondered how long it would be before someone noticed :P LOVE your avi btw!
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Support Groups
Close Healthy Sex
Not much to say! Just love sex! I'm a very sexually open person. :)
Close Breakups & Divorce
Seperated 11/30/07. Been trying so hard to do this civilly, but has been very hard.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Leave Somewhat Helpful
- Love Somewhat Helpful
- Music Working / Worked
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Support Groups Somewhat Helpful
- Talking Working / Worked
- Time Working / Worked
Open Depression
Type: Clinical (Major) DepressionWas diagnosed with depression at 14, but looking back think I had it my whole life. I had 3 suicide attempts as a teen and have self mutilated in my past. Past those now, thank God, but still struggle every single day with fighting this monster called depression. Meds and therapy have saved me.
Treatments
- Cymbalta Working / Worked
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Seroquel Working / Worked
- Writing Somewhat Helpful
- Risperdal Working / Worked
Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)
I have 4 kids - 12, 7, 5, and 4.
Open Parenting Big Kids (5-8)
I have 4 kids - 12,7,5,and 4.
Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)
I have a 12 yr. old in middle school that has the attitude of a grown teen. Also a 7,5,and 4 yr. old.
Open Parents of Children with ADHD
My 12 yr. old son has ADHD. Was diagnosed about 5 years ago and is on meds for it.
Open Back Pain
I have spineostinocis. Diagnosed about 2 years ago. Have tried/had chiropractic care, neurosurgeon care, spinal injections, and PT. Am doing pretty good though I suffer daily from pain.
Open Adoption
I am a birthmom that gave up my son (with my stbx husband) in November 2006. I receive letters and pictures of my son.
Treatments
- Time Working / Worked
- Time is the BIGGEST healer. As cliche as that sounds. Nothing else helped more.
- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- Its so important to have a good support system when you do this.
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