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  From Kuup37 Yesterday

  My very best to the both of you. I hope that you will find happiness, health and enlightenment again.

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  From Kuup37 Yesterday

  Hey G, are you doing okay?

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  From jenethkay Tuesday

  Thanks for the hug! I come from a line of alcoholics. My two brothers and father are. One brother died from it (after it made him homeless and estranged from his family) and the other thank god has been sober for 12 years now. My father is a different story. Justin is a binge drinker...he can go months without picking it up, but once he does (and it is always in a social situation) he doesn't stop until he can't remember what the hell happened. It always coincides with the bp episodes. Not sure if the first binge drinking incident comes first or the bp. Glad your wife is back, although how are you feeling about it? I know you must be relieved in many ways. Let me know what I can do to help! Jen

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  From happy4me Tuesday

  Hi!! I dont know what i am going to do. The more we talk the more i am learning that none of this has to do with him not loving me. I think he loves me very much. Not in love with me but I dont think he is capable of being in love with anyone. I finally got it out of him that he just doesnt want to be married or be a father or have a house he has to fix. You know all the responsible things. He wants to do what he wants qwhen he wants. He didnt say it meanly but still, it hurts just the same. He said he wants to be their dad but not deal with the homework and arguments kids have and punishments. He just wants to play with them. basically what he has been doing all this time. It blows me away that he doesnt realize that he is teaching his kids that when you dont want to do something just quit no matter who gets hurt. They will be paying for this for the rest of their lives. Just like he did. I am very tired and angry that I was left with everything. he makes himself not feel guilty by telling me that he pays for everything so i should be happy. I cant believe he said that. What happened to the guy i married? I really hope things get better for you. But I think you will also have to wake up and realize that the other guy is in her life and since she is sneaking around and not telling you then it is most likely still an affair. I know its hard to believe as i am in your position right now but we have to find away to get over all of this and move on. Big Big HUGS!!

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  From happy4me Monday

  I guess we both had a horrible weekend. i found out he was still talking to her. i found the secret phone that had been disconnected and it was reconnected. There was a picture of both of them on the front of the phone together all happy. He says she is his best friend but that is all. That she has feeling for him but he told her he doesnt have feeling for her like that. Right? When does all this end. Why cant he just never come back? Plus i screwed up this weekend and had sex with him. 1st time since Feb. What an idiot I am!!!

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