Today my ex told my son that I filed a restraining order against him. What happened to the I will be a nice guy and don't want to screw you over. He is after all the one that walked out on me and 3 kids. He's just mad that I won't let him take all our money. The kids and I had such a good weekend. I think we are just feel free and releaved that he is gone. He was more of a control freak that I realized. Love is blind. He went to meet his girlfriend in FL this weekend, he should be happy. Although he has blown off his kids for an entire week. I have been feeling really good about where my life is headed.
I am thankful for everyday that I don't see my ex. I learned that the opposite of love is indifference. Apparently i have reached indifference but my ex has not. Yet he is the one with a girlfriend that is moving to FL. He says he is so happy but someone that is truly happy couldnt be so nasty to someone that has spent the last 22 years being a good wife and mother. I saw hate in his eyes and didnt do anything to him through all of this mess. I just want to end it with him peacefully. The kids and I are doing good and that is what matters the most.
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