Yesterday I started cleaning my shed for her stuff If she desides to leave.I can NOT tell her to leave yet I dont want to be the BAD person to my kids.I came to the concluson last night that she is a arrogent pampas ass the last few weeks. I came right out tonight and asked her if she gets the "new job" is she gone I had to know she said no.And she said no that shes not uncomfortable and asked me if i was and i said yes at times. I came to the realization last night that it is over and I give up THATS IT... I QUIT trying, loveing her, ANd I dont think I want to be with her anymore. but that was last night I still feel the same today but as for tomorrow i dont know only time will tell