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June 30, 2008 10:33am
today we celebrated 23 years of marriage! and yes I consider it 23 years of marriage even with the affair.life is about challenges and how we manage …
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About Me
professional, family man married 23 years two children 14&18 two dogs-love sports and outdoors like all kinds of music-dedicated hard working easy going
Interests
music, nature walks, going to the beach, cooking, , , , traveling
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June 30
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humbledvirginian wrote a journal entry: anniversary 10:33am
today we celebrated 23 years of marriage! and yes I consider it 23 years of marriage even with the affair.life…
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thank you for the greeting and hug…
June 25
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humbledvirginian gave needhelp62 Flowers 9:24am
you can be strong!…
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Journal Entry for March 19, 2008
March 19, 2008 3:50pm
sometimes I just wantto scream.it is a lonely feeling ,ashamed and hiding from everyone the hidden secret of a spouse having and …
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Wishing you a Gentle Eve and a Beautiful tomorrow that will bring you smiles. Love Ravin
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Gentle Hugs for my sweet friend Thank You
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I could use a hug tonight. Here's to you, my friend. Have a wonderful evening. Sweet dreams.
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Big hug to my BF!!
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Just a big hug because I wanted to :) Have a Peacefully Blessed Weekend Lots of Love Ravin
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Close Infidelity
caught wife having affair in fall of 2006 working on recovery and restablishing trust-very tough but have full committment from both of us.no contact with"other" for over 18 months.affair only lasted 2months but hard to break totally free for three months after that.,adultery only happened 1 time but relationship hidden for the rest -lies,cheating ,deception etc.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
- attended for 3 months seemed to work,but she had relapse the last time we went and had to see"other " just to followup of course she realized it was wrong and non productive.it was her weakness and has not done that since
- Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
- forgiveness is somewhat a tough process-I have worked on forgiveness it is the "forgetting part that is the most difficult.It has been 17 months but fels like yesterday
- Reading Somewhat Helpful
- brings comfort reading that I am not the only one that is experiencing the total moods
