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Still Alive, I think
Wednesday, September 3, 2008 | A General Update story

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   Hey girl....first of all, you have done nothing!!!! He is the one that did something!!!! He took away your life......my counselor told me today that it is gonna take a long time to get over the fucktard.....Jessie along with my asshole completely shocked us.....it is like a death....it takes time to heal....I was very sad the other day as well, it was the fucktard's birthday...but I did not call or email him...he dosent deserve me or either does Jessie deserve you.....keep your chin up....life will get better girlfriend....Michelle

   
   

   shellie28

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   YOu will be amazed what the one year mark will be like. Try not to let things bring you down. It will get better, i am living proof. Its been about year and half for me and things are really wonderful for me. They will be for you to. Just look for the good that is around you and try your best not to dwell.
   Bigg Huggs

   
   

   pgamble

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   Thank you so much for the support! I am just so tired of this never ending crying. I miss him SO bad and can NOT seem to get beyond this. I really thought by now I would be SOME better and it is like I am as bad as I was on day 1.
   My Doc told me that it would take a year. What is it about 1 year?
   He is not coming back, I have to somehow realize that. The day he left he didnt even look back. Even if he did try to come back I shouldnt even consider it. But, right now, I think I would do anything to stop this suffering. Thanx guys I dont know what I would do without you! J:(((

   
   

   JolaJames

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   It does take time if you really loved him. I'm suprised the doctor told you it will take a year. I found it's a personal thing - you will know when the time comes.

   
   

   Bisley

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   After what I had been through with my first hubbie of 20 years, it really took alot for me to finally let ALL my guards down and truly give in and trust and love him with everything I had. Then -BOOM-! He just yanked the rug completely out from under me! I dont know if I will be able to ever truly love again. I trust no one. It is like I already know that what I am hearing is a lie. I have heard of this sort of thing "ruining" a person.
   The Doc said that it actually takes a year to go through "stages". I sure havent noticed any kind of "stages" only suffering, crying, and misery that seems like it will never, ever end. Thank you so much for your help! ALL of you! Jola :(((

   
   

   JolaJames

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   i really feel for you -it will be 3 yrs since my ex left although we didn't divorce till may 07--and until recently it seemed i thought of him 24/7 what you have said was what i also had lived and i to wondered what i did that made him stray ---and leave me and our kids --the other woman had the nerve to call and leave a message on my cell-how she got that # i wonder? she said if i made him happy and had him i never would have lost him---how dare her to call me when i would have never stooped so low as to call her -i want nothing to do with her. all i can say is to take care of yourself and men like the ones we had aren't worth 2 cents and hopefully one day our hearts will heal. i am sending you hug and will remember you in my prayers.

   
   

   jot1222

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   Thank you SO much for your support. The reason that you would never stoop so low as to call HER is that YOU have class, and she is nothing more than a homewrecking, no class, closet banging slut that will get hers in time. He cheated on you, he will cheat on her. They ALL do. Thank you for your hug and prayers, I will keep you in mine as well. J:)

   
   

   JolaJames

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