CoinOpGuy's Journal

I've finally realized what some friends and family who've been through divorce have been telling me all along.  My stbx is only out for herself and cares nothing for me anymore.  I finally got a list of her reasons for wanting the divorce and most are anywhere fron a pretty big stretch right up to downright lies.  And she's passing these around to other people she knows.  But as we had very few mutual friends, my friends and family know the truth, and I live 200 miles away now I find I really don't care.  I began writing a letter to her telling her the flaws in each of her arguements but then I realized that it wouldn't make a difference.  She's had 3 months to get used to this idea and start to move on.  I've had 10 days, its going to take time but I realize now that talking to her is useless.  She doesn't have any desire to reconcile and after what she's doing now I really don't either.