Still feeling good
March 16, 2008 4:10pm
I still feel good today. It seems that most of my anxiety has washed away since I was able to serve the divorce papers. The fact that we …
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CoinOpGuy
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About Me
I am currently the technical manager and lead technician for a large amusement and vending firm in Michigan. I also run a small computer repair/consulting business out of my home. I am also getting ready to start back to school soon in a field that is yet to be decided. I am very close to my family and have a close knit group of friends I've had for many years. I do a lot of reading about just about anything and spend a fair amount of time trying to learn my way around a new town.
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Reading, Long walks, Time spent with friends and family, making new friends, the occasional pint and my favorite nearby pub, coffee shops, computers, I'm a huge movie buff, Anything Irish or Scottish, Music, Any kind of live show (plays, concerts, ballet, basically anything in while the performers are extraordinarily talented), animals, and boating to name a few.
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Journal Entry for March 14, 2008
March 14, 2008 12:23pm
Getting the papers served as well as getting through the acceptance/forgiveness of the whole situation has helped a great deal. The fact we can …
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Finally realizing some things
March 12, 2008 9:46pm
I've finally realized what some friends and family who've been through divorce have been telling me all along. My stbx is only out for …
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just wanted to say hi
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*HUG* hope your monday is going well...
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Hope all is going well....happy friday!!
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Just wanted to say hi, haven't talked in a few days and I hope all is going well for you. Had a little bit of "excitment" today at clinical...well not me personally...but I've never seen nurses and doctors swarm so quickly. Anyways...we'll talk later :) Enjoy your evening.
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*HUG* Have a good nite....drive safe!! Talk soon and thanks again for the 'puter advice! :)
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After telling me she 'needed some space' only a week before Christmas my wife then moved into her parents house and said she would call when she wanted to talk. The call never came though I attempted to open up communication a couple of times and was usually ignored. Finally after 2 months she agreed to meet me for lunch so we can talk. And without pretext or anything simply Says "I don't think we have anything worth saving and I want a divorce" Nothing I could say made a difference.
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- Pets Working / Worked
- I got a cat to help keep me company. My wife and I had a dog however the place I moved into wouldn't allow him or I would have him. It's nice to have another creature in the house to keep you company. She seems to listen when I need to talk.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Just started and seems to be working for the moment.
- Reading Working / Worked
- My cousin, who also went through a nasty divorce, gave me several books that were helpful for her and I have started reading them and they too seem to be working.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- It is therapeutic to talk to family and friends. Though most often their advice isn't any help (unless perhaps they've been through a divorce) its nice to talk to people who are interested in your well being.
- Talking Working / Worked
- I've been fairly open about whats been happening. Talking helps even if I'm just talking out loud to myself in the house. Things seem more clear when said out loud.
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