7 months yesterday, Dedicated to you
July 23, 2008 2:13pm
JULY 23, 2008
LANCE,
YESTERDAY MADE 7 MONTHS, BABY I STILL MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH. I STOPPED BY THE ACCIDENT SITE …
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One is a lonely number, Trying to find out who I am
July 14, 2008 12:36pm
7-14-08
This weekend it was too hot to be outside, nothing to do inside. You can only watch so much TV, paper work, and house work gets …
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6 months now since I lost the love of my life
June 24, 2008 3:59pm
6-24-08
This past weekend hit 6 months without Lance now. I think that I handled the 22nd much better than the past several …
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Another visit in my dreams
June 17, 2008 1:27pm
6-17-08
Just before I went to bed last night I slipped a pair of Lance's shoes on for a few minutes I could still feel the imprint of his …
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"IN-LAW" issues
June 13, 2008 4:13pm
June 13, 2008
This weekend is going to be Father's Day. I think other than our wedding anniversay this is going to be the hardest …
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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband of almost 30 years to cancer. It's been 8 & 1/2 months and I can't say it's gotten any easier; I still miss him with every breath I take. Many hugs to you. My thoughts are with you.
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dear missulance,i read your journal and i am so sorry for your loss and your childrn's loss.the shock is so unbearable at times,it seems as tho are loved ones are still with us.i still hear my son's voice and see his beautifuf smile as tho he is standing rite in front of me.may god bless you, and your daughter, and son.luv geri
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Thanks Deniseit has been a rough road and i expect it to get rougher but with friends on D.S i hope to make it through this...Jen
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Sending a hug your way - I'm right there with you, except for the kids - I'm wandering alone around a big empty house wondering what to do next. I'm finding it very hard to use "I","my" etc - it was alyways "us", "we", "ours" - I just keep hoping it will get better.
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Thank you and yes i hope things come together been out job hunting. Had a couple of interview cross my fingers. Hugs, Norma
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Close Widows & Widowers
I am 46 and just lost my husband of almost 23 years on Dec. 22, 2007 in a tragic auto accident. We have two children a daughter 19 and son who just turned 16 on Dec.7, 2007. Our lives have been one large blur since the accident. We are just trying to cope.
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- Grief Counseling Working / Worked
- I have been getting counsel for the past month it do feel good when I leave the sessions. I'm starting to realize that the outside world is getting on with life and to listen to me talk about my situation is too depressing for everyone to listen to. Some people even change the subject quickly and have even stopped calling like they used to. The counseling sessions allow me to discuss my thoughts and feelings on a weekly basis in a safe environment.
Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseI just lost my husband of almost 23 years on Dec. 22, 2007 in an automobile accident. It was so sudden and very difficult to process. A lot of guilt set in on the should have done, could have done, should have said. No chance to say good-bye. We have a daughter 19 and a son 16. It has been a very difficult journey. Trying to stay strong for the kids.
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- Crying Working / Worked
- Some days you just have to let it out.
- Grief Counseling Working / Worked
- I am able to find some relief knowing that I can discuss my feelings and the others there understand. Want to work through this without taking meds.
- Keeping Busy Working / Worked
- Some days yes some days no.
- Prayer Working / Worked
- It helps to give me the strength that I need to get through the day.
- Reading Working / Worked
- Helps to go to sleep.
- Talking Working / Worked
- I find it helpful to talk about it and to keep my husbands memory alive.
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