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    About Me

    I am 52 years old, my husband is 55. We have two children- a 25 year old son and a 23 year old daughter. We have been married 30 years. We dated for 4 years before that. I have known my husband since I was 18 years old. I am a teacher. When I am not stressed out over my marital difficulties-I enjoy reading, yoga, traveling, museums, concerts, and walking for exercise.

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    • On track again....

      Mood June 19, 2008 2:31pm

      How can I be so positive one day and then plunge back into  a downward spiral the next?

      I just can.... and so... last weekend... on my 31st …

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      From stayingalive Yesterday

      Thank you. You are a very nice person. I appreciate you. Here's some flowers to brighten your day.

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      From YangStar Yesterday

      Thanks...things are ok now...bit of a downer before, but hey..things will be like this for a while. Hope you are well. Thank you for thinking of me. Hug hug hug!

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      From anotherbetrayed1 Monday

      Hi jrsygrl. I have been traveling, trying to force myself to feel "normal." Does the feeling of normalcy ever return? It has also been 16 months since I discovered my husband's adultery. He and our counselor (a male) can't seem to understand why I am not making progress. Maybe because they are both men and obviously don't see the betrayal in the same manner that I do? Maybe because they have never been cheated on? Who knows...at any rate, I can almost guarantee that if either of them were in my shoes, they would have left the marriage. At this point, I am just trying to determine if the marriage is even worth it. I feel like I don't have any self-love, self-honor, or self-respect if I stay. So many things to consider...I will be praying for you as well.

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      From shaking259er Friday

      HAPPY 4TH OF JULY, HAVE A GREAT DAY....SHARON

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      From Aprilfool2007 Thursday

      Thank you so much for your comment in my journal. Hope that you are having a good day... HAPPY 4TH OF JULY... and have a great weekend! (((HUGS)))

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    • Close Infidelity

      I found out that my husband of 30 years has been having a long term affair ( over 5 years ) with a co-worker.After many tears and a separation and much counseling we are working to rebuild our marriage.

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      Couples Counseling Working / Worked
      Because he made so many changes (AA,individual therapy,church,complete honesty) I agreed after 3 months of separation and almost filing for divorce to try couples counseling.
      Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
      Because he made so many changes (AA,individual therapy,church,complete honesty) I agreed after 3 months of separation and almost filing for divorce to try couples counseling.
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      I found out that my husband of 30 years had an affair with a co-worker for over 5 years. I started dating him at 18. He was my first and only love. He was the one person I thought I could completely trust. The betrayal was so painful I thought I would never be able to forgive or forget. We separated and I filed for divorce. My husband was extremely repentent and would not give up on trying to win me back. We have since reconciled and are working to rebuild our marriage.

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      Couples Counseling Somewhat Helpful
      Forgiveness Working / Worked
      Love Working / Worked
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      ongoing
      Reading Working / Worked
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      my friends have been great.
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      Talking Working / Worked
      Time Working / Worked

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