I am a mom of two wonderful, loving and beautiful boys ages 4 and 7. They inspire me to be strong, to be my best each day and to love despite the recent hell I'm living through. My STBX told me he's having an affair after just shy of 10 years of marriage. My STBX decided to tell me that it was over on our Disney trip with our kids. Great guy, huh! Divorce proceedings are underway!
Going to the theater, listening to music, gardening, reading, exercising, spending time with my kids, traveling and retail therapy. My dream is to shop in Paris and in Rome and not worry about the size or cost all in one trip. I said it was a dream. NOT INTERESTED IN DATING!!!!!!!!!!!!
maxtomsmom replied to their discussion post can't let go in the Breakups & Divorce support group 5:36pm
Thanks for your replies. I am in therapy and do have a good lawyer. It's his texts telling me that he…
maxtomsmom wrote a discussion post in the Breakups & Divorce support group: can't let go 5:02pm
After about 5 months of his indecision (read last journal entry if you want the whole story), I have…
maxtomsmom replied to diemjs’s discussion post My stomach is in knots in the Breakups & Divorce support group 9:14am
Good luck!…
maxtomsmom replied to legalpenguin’s discussion post it's been four months... in the Breakups & Divorce support group 1:02am
You are not a stupid man. Most people don't see it coming. Hang in there, someone better will come your…
maxtomsmom replied to legalpenguin’s discussion post it's been four months... in the Breakups & Divorce support group 12:56am
It's only been about 5 months for me and I am nowhere near getting over it. Take this time for a lot…
July 21, 2008 9:35pm
Come on up and step right in to the roller coaster of Maxtomsmom's life. It's got thrills and curves and of course ups and downs. HERE …
July 16, 2008 8:59am
Well, it is over. I have had it and reached my point. I no longer want him. He continues to see her off and on, WTF. He says the feelings aren't …
Sorry to hear what you're going through. Hang in there. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
been missing you and chatting with u hopefully I'll talk to you today...
I hope everything works out for you.
you know if I could I'd give you a real hug... hang in there... ((((HUG))))
Wishing you a happy July and hope it is a good month for you!
It's been a typical roller coaster since I have learned about my H affair. He's been back and forth wanting to work it out. He is so lost and confused, but continues to stay in a relationship with her, therefore, I am out. I deserve better than him. He is a Fucktard and now I know I want a divorce more than anything in my life. I am hoping to have it quickly and amicably for our children's and my sakes.
My soon to be 7 year old was just diagnosed with ADD/ADHD. He is an extremely bright and curious child who academically does well despite his impulsivenes and is easily distracted. I know he will be something great one day, but it is a struggle just to get his socks on!
Definitely getting a divorce and can't wait to sign the final papers. He is such a fucktard and they deserve each other. I am better and will not be better off without him, but his selfish ways has taught me how to be stronger. I will find my true soul mate.
