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About Me
I am a 29 year old, Christian, stay-at-home-mom of 5 children ages 2-14, whom I homeschool.
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Recent Activity
August 26
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damaged1 and Daisy_Lover are now friends 9:32pm
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damaged1 gave Daisy_Lover a Hug 9:31pm
Thanks for that. Right back at you! Trying to hang in there.…
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damaged1 gave wildspirit a Hug 9:30pm
Thanks so much for that! I did need it.…
August 24
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damaged1 replied to whiskeytangofoxtrot’s request for advice about Is this something? in the Infidelity support group 1:03pm
Girl I hate to say it, but I think this woman is with your man. She prob. did not want to speak with…
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damaged1 replied to Cali123’s discussion post Question about "reconciliation" in the Infidelity support group 12:53pm
I think you should just talk to an attorney in your state who can help you clarify this.…
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because you need one. xx
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Hugs and prayers to you. Oh my gosh, 29 and 5 kids. You are a very young mom. I don't see how a man could do this to the mother of his children. He is the ultimate of selfish! Hang in there. It can be a long, difficult, bumpy road! I know! Please stay in touch w/ us.
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Sending u hug and prayers that everything will turn out alright.
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I really can...thank u.
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Close Infidelity
In 2006 my husband had an adulterous relationship with another woman. Long story short, he believed he was in love with her, was very cruel to me, and left me here with 5 kids and no income. 2mos after moving out he returned home, but did not really change until Jan. 2007 when he knew I was fed up and was going to divorce him. Since then, he has been very good at trying to regain what he lost, but I am so damaged by it all and I love him dearly, but don't know if we can make it.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- We had the wrong counselor at first and he was a waste of money. I think he didn't want my husband to be mad with him or anything, but the only result I got was to be angry with both of them. We found a great counselor and it was going better, but hten we stopped being able to afford the sessions.
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- If I am honest, I have not done this yet. I know I dwell on this too much, but I don't really know how to stop. As a Christian, it eats me up that I have not been able to do this and I know I have to soon, for my own sake.
- Leave Considering
- Most recently, I tried this the other night, but he unpacked my suitcase and told me I couldn't leave and then he broke down into tears and begged me not to.
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