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Friday, June 6, 2008 | A Painful story

4 about 24 hours after i told lola that i loved her things went well. then she became very upset and would not leave her mother;s home and started cutting herself. both lola and were abused as kids. I was physically and emotionally abused and in addition 2 those, lola was also sexually abused. we both SI when stressed.

 

things r getting better. i am beginning to accept life without any use of my left hand and lola is feeling better about leaving the safety of her family home, moving in with me and our getting engaged.

 

many thanx 2 all who have sent us hugs and good wishes.

 

pat

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  1. SherrollW

    So glad to hear things are getting better, Pat. I am going through the healing from sexual abuse as a child as well. Please have Lola message me.


    SherrollW

  2. vetgirl29

    I'm happy to hear things seem to be going well. Sorry for SI I hope you can stop when you get stressed


    vetgirl29

  3. jaimer22

    so glad to here that things are going well for you. I knew that there would only be a matter of time before you found a woman who'd accept you for who you are and not what you look like.


    jaimer22

  4. Chameleon77

    So pleased for you both x


    Chameleon77

  5. ElsMom

    I am so happy for you because your story gives me hope that my daughter will also be able to have a happy life and eventually find someone who loves her even though she is different.


    ElsMom

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