I am so sick and tired of other women trying to pick up my husband...does he give off a "I'm easy" aroma or what??? Ever since the "incident" I now have his passwords and check his myspace and email daily, which he knows about, and today I found a e-mail from a girl that said...I saw you at the races and I think about you all the time, looks like you have a great marriage and I am happy for you and her (talking about me), me not so well...alot more blah blah blah stuff....and then.......I noticed you looked at me for a while, you must think about me too...Uhhhh NO NO NO and NO!!!! We were talking about her, and how she just had her 3rd baby taken away by the state, that is why he was looking at her....what a dumb bitch!!! Seriously WOMEN LEAVE MY HUSBAND ALONE!!!! He has a wedding ring on his hand for a reason....This whole situation just makes me wanna puke! I am so stressed with everything in my life and then to have fricken girls keep tempting my hubby....I hate it! Please stress me more, I NEED THAT!!! Yeah like a hole in the head!
that's when you delete the email and don't even mention it to him. don't give reason for any potential disputes. I'm sure he knows better than to respond to that. and if he did (i know greg) he would probably be a smartass about so much she would realize he wasn't looking at her for any purpose. If it makes you feel better...my husband overseas looks at porn all the time and has never once asked me for a dirty photo. now that's messed! I think greg knows better at this point and you have nothing to worry about. also take in to consideration his past...(no offense to either of you) greg has a pretty wild past and was raised in a slightly dysfuntional family. So there are going to be a few girls out there who know him from back in the day that still have their little "what if" fantasies. I still have them sometimes and i'm married! But i'm happy and would never act on any of those fantasies...but i do sometimes wonder where i would be if one of the other relationships had worked out. In a completely different place and probably would actually have a husband home with me right now instead of one in afghanistan. let them have their fantasies...but don't let them act on it.
ChinookWife
Yea, I agree with Chinook, delete them and never tell him! You win in that situation. OR, go kick the woman in the a** the next time you see her. Let her know YOU read it but he never will!
ske003
I like ske003's idea of telling the woman you read it, but your husband never will....GREAT CALL!! Let her know you're in control, not her. That you're husband loves you, not her! Good luck!
How is your dad doing???
Love and prayers, Liz
Lizzie21