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    About Me

    Hi!! I recently hit the "BIG 4-0!!![Am okay w/ it!]I'm a Mother of two great kids!!! I have a 21yr. old daughter, love of my life & best friend, and a 6mth. old Grandson-is my pride & joy!!!Also have a wonderful 2yr. old little boy[Terrible 2's right now!!!LOL!].I recently got engaged[on my 40th b'day!!], to my soul-mate!!!I am no longer able to work[disabled], due to chronic neck & back pain.This will be my 3rd year not working;& I REALLY miss it!!I was a bartender/waitress for 20yrs., & LOVED it![for the most part-LOL!]I also have Severe Fibro., & it's startin' to really wear down my spirit! I try to stay Positive{esp.4 my kids], BUT;it's getting Harder every day!!

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    I have a strong interest in Astrology.I've also always wanted to take a course in Photography ;cuz I Love to take picts.;esp.of the kids-BUT..I always end up w/ "headless"picts., etc.!!HA!HA! My dream:Learn to play the guitar B4 I die!! I LOVE children & all animals!Pschy.; & counseling abused kids, is also a very strong interest of mine.I went to college for it, BUT..Never completed classes;becuz I was a single Mother[for 15yrs.].But, wouldn't change a thing!Anybody reading this, I wish u the BEST in life & God Bless You!

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      Good Morning Sweetie, Just wanted to let you know my thought's, If your beauty from your heart inside & out could override the pain in your body, You would never hurt again!!! I am SOOOO thankful to have you as my friend!! Let me know how your day went yesterday! Thinking of you alway's, Love your friend, Theresa

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    • Close Sexual Abuse

      Incest as a child (age 2yrs. to age 10 yrs.,until my big brother;9 yrs. older- He Knew Better!!!, joined the Navy-THANK U GOD!)& raped in my 20's.Also molested by 2 B/Sitters @ age7 to age 9!One was male,One was a female.Needless 2 say,unforunately;I trust NOONE w/my child!!So,I don't get out much,alone or just me & my Fiancee.But that's Okay!!

      Treatments

      Art Somewhat Helpful
      Helps quite a bit!,& is FUN!!
      Art Somewhat Helpful
      Helps quite a bit!,& is FUN!!
      Group Therapy Working / Worked
      Can be a very difficult experience;but does help.
      Leave Not Working
      Didn't help;felt like I was "running away".The feelings will always be there!!!
      Music Working / Worked
      Feels good 2 just be able 2 get 100% lost inmy music-definitely HELPS!!!!!
      Talking Too Soon to Tell
      I am just now trying this one. I seem 2 feel much better[most of the time],after talking 2 my fiancee about it,but..I think it's VERY important to trust the person u r talking about it w/ 110%!!!!!!!
    • Close Parenting Toddlers (1-3)

      Hi! Ihave a sweet 2yr. old son[Luke}.Also have a 21yr. old daughter w/ my 6mth. old grandson{my first!}I suffer from chronic back & neck pain,along w/ several other health issues.Parenting is hard enough,but then add chronic daily pain 2 it...Is anyone else out there "trying" 2 be a wonderful parent,but some days it is all u can do 2 get out of bed?!??They r such incredible little people -I love being a Mom!!

      Treatments

      Positive Reinforcement Working / Worked
      U HAVE 2 be consistent!!
    • Open Chronic Pain

      Hi! I am 40yrs. old[docs say in the body of a 60yr. old!!];but feel 80 most days!I have very serious spinal compression[worse in my neck].Also,deg. disc disease,spinal stenosis,CFS,arthritis,scoliosis,carpral tunnel&tenditis,fibro.,bulging discs,migraines, spondylosiosis,retrolesesis,[sp?],endometroisis.,ovarian cysts,adenmyosis,& hep c.I have 2 kids,1 is 2yrs.& 1 is 21yrs.!!Would appreciate talking to anyone that can relate 2 ANY of these!Pain level is usually 10+ daily. God bless.

      Treatments

      Acupressure Not Working
      Acupuncture Not Working
      Didnt help wasnt a very pleasant experience!
      Chiropractic Adjustment Not Working
      The first couple adj.'s seemed 2 help a bit; but then pain got worse!!? & VERY sore after!!!
      Flexeril Not Working
      Makes me way to sleepy;& groggy 24/7!!
      Heat Somewhat Helpful
      Hydrocodone Somewhat Helpful
      Helps to take the "edge" off [most days].
      Lyrica Too Soon to Tell
      Meditation Too Soon to Tell
      Methadone Somewhat Helpful
      Seemed to help, then I lost that doc,now noone else will prescribe it!!??
      Morphine Considering
      If only I could find a doc that would offer it!!? Was on it in hosp.[1991],w/ first ever back injury[broke & dislocated tailbone & fract. saccrum], helped ALOT!!!
      Naproxen Not Working
      SUCKED!!!No relief!
      Nerve Blocks Somewhat Helpful
      Seemed to help at first,then no relief-only PAIN from the procedure.
      Oxycodone Somewhat Helpful
      Stopped taking it,it made me extremely nauseous!!!
      Physical Therapy Somewhat Helpful
      Kinda helps; but is hard to get the energy & motivation 2 make the drive there & back when u r in a ton of pain.
      TENS Not Working
      HATED IT!!!!!! Could not stand the constant "zaps" u experience!
    • Open Hepatitis C

      I found out I have hep.C 15yrs. ago when I went 2 donate blood.I had NO idea!!!Apparently,when Igave birth to my daughter 21yrs.ago[was an emergency C-section];I needed a blood transfusion.Back in 1987,they didn't screen the blood first,and lucky me!!!-I ended up w/hep.C !!

    • Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)

      I'm not sure if I'm "allowed" to be here? My daughter is 20,& will be 21 this Thurs.[3/6].But,just becuz they turn 18, does NOT[by any means!]mean the "issues" stop!My daughter has ALOT of anger issues,& likes to take them out on me!! Some is O.K.,but NOT when she takes it to the extreme:tells me to "fuck off",etc.-in front of my 2yr. old son!!Is CONSTANTLY trying to "pick fights" w/me,is demanding,etc.!!!BUT,at the same time,is sweet,thoughtful,& my best friend;& all in all-A good "kid".

      Treatments

      Education (School) Somewhat Helpful
      Patience Not Working
      Psychotherapy Considering
    • Open Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

      I personally think my disorder stems from all of the childhood abuse I endured growing up.I was put up 4 adopt.as an infant&my "mother" mentally & physically abused me'till age 13.She STILL "screws" w/my head, bigtime!& I am 40yrs. old!!!Some days I am strong,& other days- not so much!A few of my OCD's:everything HAS 2 face 4ward,towels folded evenly w/ tags "tucked in",ETC!!

      Treatments

      Prozac Working / Worked
      Tried it 14yrs. agoseemed to help alot!
    • Open Adoption

      HI,I was put up 4 adoption as an infant;& adopted @ 5days old.My adopted Mother was[is] VERY abusive!!Physically,as well as emotionally!! EXP.: She broke my nose 3x by age 10!!And to this day still plays "head games" & guilt trips,etc.!!!

    • Open Stress Management

      Oh my god-where to begin?!?TOOOO many!!Facing a VERY risky surgery[that I DON'T want to have!!}Now a stay @ home Mom[2yr. old son].21 yr. old daughter moves back in & out,w/ her 6mth old son;& is goin' thru domestic abuse & upcoming custody B.S.!! And,MUCH MORE!! All,VERY STRESSFUL!!!!!!

      Treatments

      Emotions Anonymous (EA) Working / Worked
      Never heard of it!!??HOW can I find out MORE??? VERY interested!!
      Music Working / Worked
      Definitely helps!!But, better when I'm alone.And I pretty much get NO alone time!!![2yr. old son]
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      Is harder than it sounds;unless u were 1 of the lucky ones born w/ patience!! LOL.
      Physical Exercise Not Working
      Tried it in the past;HATED IT!!!!!Funny,cuz my sign[Sagittarius},says I'm 'spost 2 LOVE it!! LOL!
    • Open Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

      A few yrs. ago I have started having "flashbacks",anxiety, an occasional panic attack,& VERY vivid nightmares!!And, 3mths. ago,I actually startrd to sleepwalk again!!?I feel that it is ALL due to PTSD;associated w/ all the abuse I went thru from birth to age 13. In my "dreams",I feel as if tho'I am actually being molested all over again!!I wake up & actually have 2 turn the lites on,& check the room 4 my brother{who incested me,age 2 to 10},& make sure he's not really there!!!Seem so real!!

      Treatments

      Art Somewhat Helpful
      EMDR Considering
      Emotions Anonymous (EA) Considering
      Would LOVE more info. about this group,if anybody has any??
      Music Somewhat Helpful
      Psychotherapy Not Working
      Reading Somewhat Helpful
      Supportive Care Not Working
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      But can be VERY painful!!
    • Open Degenerative Disc Disease

      Hi! I have severeDDD,along w/ many other neck & back probs. .Severe daily pain,can't do the things I once could!They want 2 do a Laminectomy & fusion,but I'm still NOT comfortable W/ that!!!

    • Open Fibromyalgia

      Hi,I was diagnosed w/ fibro.14yrs. ago,when I was only 26yrs. old!!Back then[1994],Doctors did NOT even believe there was[is] such a Horrible,painful disease!!!So..becuz of that,I was often told that the pain was all in my head from other Doctors thru the yrs.!! Talk about a "slap in the face!!!!!" I am now 40yrs. old,& I thought the pain was bad B4..it is absolutely HORRIFIC now!!!Everyday!!And ther r soooo many things I can No longer do!It sure takes ALOT of the FUN out of life!!!!SUCKS!!!!

      Treatments

      Acupressure Considering
      Acupuncture Not Working
      Did NOT help;& very costly!!!$$$$
      Adderall Working / Worked
      Aqua Therapy Somewhat Helpful
      Is GREAT,IF u have access to one ALL the time!!
      Cyclobenzaprine Not Working
      Absolutely HATE how it makes me feel the next day!!!Icky!
      Cymbalta Considering
      Am VERY curious about this drug! Can anybody tell me anything about it???Please.
      Duragesic Patch Somewhat Helpful
      Effexor Not Working
      YUK!
      Elavil Working / Worked
      But I don't take it anymore,cuz I was on it for sooo many yrs.!
      Guaifenesin Not Working
      Heat Somewhat Helpful
      Help a teeny,weeny bit.
      Lyrica Not Working
      Side Effects!!!!!!!!
      Morphine Considering
      Neurontin Not Working
      YUK!!
      TENS Not Working
      Did NOT help,And I HATED how it felt!!!
      Ultram Not Working
      What a joke!!!
      Vitamin B12 Too Soon to Tell
    • Open Back Pain

      Hi!I am 40yrs.old,a Mother of two.& a Gramma of one!This pain is a living HELL!Orig.Injury:6/5/91,broke saccrum & tailbone,& dislocated it!NOW:Fibro.,DDD,Severe spinal cord compres.,sp.stenosis,migraines,sp.arthritis,rheumatoid arth.,CFS,bursitis,myofacial pain synd.,scoliosis,bulg.discs,spondylosis,retrolethesis,hip problems,CTS,tendonitis.I am facing 2 risky surgeries(SOON),that I am NOT sure if I want to go thru w/ or not?!?!!Would like advice & opinions ,PLEASE!!Any help is appreciated!

      Treatments

      Acupressure Somewhat Helpful
      Acupuncture Not Working
      Bedrest Not Working
      Carisoprodol Not Working
      Chiropractic Adjustment Somewhat Helpful
      Cortisone (Injection) Not Working
      Darvon Not Working
      Epidural Injection Not Working
      Fentanyl Considering
      Flexeril Not Working
      Heat Somewhat Helpful
      Hydrocodone Somewhat Helpful
      Ibuprofen Somewhat Helpful
      Morphine Considering
      Naproxen Not Working
      Physical Therapy Considering
      Relaxation Not Working
      Stretching Not Working
      TENS Not Working
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