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Harassment? Mood

Monday, July 21, 2008

You have screwed, lied, cheated and betrayed me for so many years. You have ganged up on me and set me up- and have trashed me with your girlfriend.... What a supportive guy you are indeed you bash and complain about me, the mother of your children. You are in full support of a serial cheater and home-wrecker. Be sure to help her get the best attorneys to help her sue me for harassment. I sent a note to S. (her 22 year old daughter) to tell her that this mess is not a reflection on her and I was sorry that I didn't get to say hello to her at a certain event. Only an unstable person would turn that into harassment. It is so odd that you both think that you are victims when your selfish evil ways have been working against your marriages and families for years. G (the OW) has no right to be angry with me nor do you. Your reputation was built by you alone... adultery is adultery, sin is a sin, coveting an others wife is just that and stealing is stealing. It is black or white ~ good or evil. You won't be getting any support in what you are doing from the good people of this community. There is not another side of the story that justifies what you are choosing to do. You had the affair - you are continuing with your selfish unethical course. You don't deserve to feel good about it that is why God gives you guilt. Your behavior is not respectable. I did not do this to the two of you - you did!!!! How in the heck did you think people would react? Hello is doesn't take a neurosurgeon to figure it out! No one is to blame but you! Do you really think I should just say that it is all okay? Sugar coat it all so it isn't hard on you? You both don't understand how thwarted your thinking is. I am not punishing either of you - God will.

-g

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I am sorry your ex is trying to minimize what he did to you. You are a beutifull child of God and are blameless in his eyes. You will get through these times and be a stronger person. I keep you in my prayers and want you to know you have friends on DS who care..
Greg

mrnobody
I think "HE" needs to have brain surgery.

special3
You are so right girl, unfortunately they are so consumed with themselves that they cannot see past what they have done and made themselves the victims.
You have done nothing wrong, you are the victim, not them, and if she thinks for one second any court would be on her side she is as crazy as the my h's OW that tried to sue me, you saw where that got her, don't worry, keep your head high and keep doing what you are doing.

lilijbr