is feeling Good
retired project director, researcher, african traveler, no children, love cats - cheetahs and domestic
cheetah conservation, travel, internet browsing, my 3 cats, helping others, family, gardening, cooking, wine tasting...... not necessarily in that order.
September 7, 2007 1:43pm
My final divorce hearing is next week. Think I got a good settlement. I so want it to be over and focus on the future. But feel sad …
July 20, 2007 5:01pm
My divorce is nearly complete. We finally came to an agreement. Everyone tells me I got a good deal in that he must pay me spousal …
June 3, 2007 5:21pm
I've been pondering my life a lot this week. Maybe because I've been talking to a couple of guys I met on the Internet or maybe its …
May 29, 2007 10:27am
Seems I'm still going through lots of changes. Just when I think I'm doing OK something happens... seems I go one step forward then two …
May 21, 2007 11:31pm
It has been a long time since I wrote in my journal. The divorce is taking longer than expected. Found he had been giving money to the other woman, …
I dont get this either. I know he loves me but why the ignoring me it feels like
Hi! I told my kitties that I was gonna send out Good Luck Clovers today and somehow they thought that was 'code' for catnip! Hey, when you have 25 cats you have to use code words for these things, otherwise you get mobbed! So, the next thing I know, I am tied to a kitchen chair, all my cats are passed out on 'nip and boy am I feeling groovy! And there seems to be a little blue man sitting in the corner saying 'I wuv you'--kinda strange, but no stranger than the green martian on the ceiling--no wonder they keep this stuff for themselves! Anyway purrs from us and be sure to keep the secret about the Good Luck Clovers (it's actually catnip in disguise!)--Laura (feeling groovy)
Sending you a hug to let you know how much you are loved.
Wishing you a good day!
HI PATCAT, I'M SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR DIVORCE. I KNOW HOW YOU ARE FEELING, I AM CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE AFTER BEING MARRIED FOR 24 YEARS TOO. I CAN ONLY TELL YOU HOW I FEEL, I BELIEVE YOU NEED TO WAIT A LITTLE WHILE BEFORE YOU START DATING SO YOU GIVE YOUR SELF A CHANCE TO HEAL. YOU NEED TIME TO FIND YOURSELF. I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU START DATING TO SOON YOU WILL EITHER END UP PICKING THE WRONG PERSON OR YOU WILL END UP HURTING SOMEONE YOU DON'T WANT TO. BUT ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. PRAY TO GOD FOR GUIDANCE.
Divoreced Sept 13, 2007. Ex is going through mid life crisiis. Wants younger woman, went from glasses to contacts, but drinks more and smoking again and more obese than ever. Says he needs to find himself. We were married for 24 years. I'm beginning to think it is a good thing... I have not been happy for several years; always trying to help him. Just never thought I'd find myself single at this age. Have found new friends through a divorce support group which is helping tremendoously.
