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CarysDaniel's Profile

Feeling: Bad  - Bad
Gender: Female
Age: 35
Location: Miami, FL
Interests:
Daniel's website: http://last-memories.com & look for Perez, Daniel
About Me:
I am 35 years old. I lost my little Daniel on October 4, 2007 during his daytime nap. He was a healthy happy 4 month old baby. Everyone thought it might had been SIDS since he passed so suddenly and unexpectedly during his nap. They classified Daniel’s case as a natural death. The cause of death is Anoxic/Hypoxic Encephalopathy and Bronchopneumonia due to Infantile Reflux and Aspiration While Sleeping. He aspirated regurgitated gastric contents. In other words, they concluded that Daniel choked on his vomit and noticed that some of it went into his lungs since they found pneumonia (in bacteria form) that caused the inflammation in his lungs. When I found, Daniel, there was no vomit on the bed, just saliva, so he did not barf anything out, I guess it stayed in him and it went into his lungs. The fact that I had seen liquid come out of his mouth during CPR was also an indication that Daniel had choked. The M.E. said that she thinks that the pneumonia was not present for a long time, and must've happened shortly before death, because the bacteria was supposedly localized and not widespread throughout the lungs and this also explains why Daniel was not sick before he passed away. I still want this all to be a nightmare! I have a wonderful 2 1/2 year old little girl.

Recent Activity

 
Friday, May. 09
CarysDaniel wrote a comment on taylorsmumandad's Photo 7:25pm
"How lovely! I would love to have a ..."
 
CarysDaniel posted a Journal Entry 7:21pm
"I will be going to Orlando, Disney ..."
 
Thursday, May. 08
CarysDaniel wrote a comment on Jakobsmommyalways's Photo 11:11pm
"Thank you for sharing this beautifu..."
 
CarysDaniel uploaded 1 photo 10:52pm
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    sienasdad (05/08/08)

    morning,i hope those dreams of dragonflies soon turn to dreams of your little Daniel....i cracked a smile for you


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    Joshsmommie (05/07/08)

    hello again!!!! its ok I guess that we will be alone on that day ....the ones who love him the most will be there!!!!!


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    Joshsmommie (05/07/08)

    Ok today wanting to do something special and no one seems to want to join in...they just say rude comments about me "getting on with life" and "why do I want to do things that will make me upset" "just treat it like anyother day"...so I guess it will be me and hubby having a party alone for him

Goals

Support Groups

 Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)
  I support someone who has lost a child to SIDS
We thought Daniel passed from SIDS, The cause of death is Anoxic/Hypoxic Encephalopathy and Bronchopneumonia due to Infantile Reflux and Aspiration While Sleeping. He aspirated regurgitated gastric contents.In other words, he choked on his vomit, and it went into his lungs. 
Treatments
 Grief Counseling (Not Working)
Counselors just really tend to just sit there and listen, I think they can't help much because they really have no idea what it is like to loose a wonderful healthy baby so suddenly.
 SIDS group (Not Working)
They cant get a group together in Miami Florida
2 Members 20 Posts
 Bereavement
  Loss of a Child
In the autopsy, they found that Daniel had Bronchial Pneumonia due to infantile reflux. He aspirated regurgitated gastric contents. In other words, he choked on his vomit, and it went into his lungs. They think that the pneumonia was not present for a long time, and must've happened shortly before death, because the bacteria was supposedly localized and not widespread throughout the lungs. 
Treatments
 Crying (Working / Worked)
 Grief Counseling (Not Working)
 Remembering (Working / Worked)
 Support Groups (Working / Worked)
26 Members 69 Posts
 Parenting Toddlers (1-3)
I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter who is very independent. She is a very good little girl but she hardly eats and likes to go to sleep very late. It is hard to keep her on a schedule. I have tried to get her to stop using her bottle, but milk with baby cereal is what she likes the most and in her bottle. We lost our 4 month son last Oct she knows who he is in a picture but does not ask for him, which is good. 
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