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    About Me

    I have been married for 17 1/2 years (apparently only 15 were happy). I am a nurse. I have 3 daughters. I enjoy playing guitar and am a Liverpool supporter. My wife wants a divorce. I am now divorcing her because of her adultery. With at least 3 men. She wants to wait 2 years and divorce because separation, but the thought of her being around for two years is too much to bear. I have started divorce proceedings. It is hard living in the same town as them especially when people come up to me and say I am sorry to hear about you an Deb. I tell them do not be sorry kicking her out was the best decision I have ever made. I have to explain to people that she has had affairs, god knows what she is telling people. I am now in a relationship and am a lot happier now, although I have my bad days.

    Interests

    Heavy Metal, Playing my guitars ( now have more since she went) ( I can now there is no one to complain) and socialising (never did when married) and going the gym.

  • Recent Activity

    July 16

    July 15

  • Journal

    • Jealousy

      Mood May 18, 2008 5:04pm

      Hello Everyone.

      I enjoyed quality time with my 2 youngest daughters yesterday. My STBX had asked the if they would like to go camping with her, him …

    • LIAR

      Mood May 9, 2008 5:27pm

      I am still waiting for her admit she has recieved the divorce papers (its been two weeks). She has it but does not want to admit it.

      I am not …

    • Up Date

      Mood May 4, 2008 7:35pm

      I thought that I had wriiten a journal after 16th April. Then I remeber I have spoken to some DSers who know whats going on.

      Right Everyone here goes. …

    • Divorce papers

      Mood April 16, 2008 6:48pm

      I saw my advocate on Monday and signed the divorce paper, which details the reasons for  divorcing on the grounds of adultery. I have asked for …

    • Detailing my ex's adultery

      Mood April 7, 2008 4:52pm

      I am unable to get an appointment with my advocate until next week, so I put off writing the details of her adultery (see last journal entry). I am …

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      From mwolf Thursday

      Hugs honey. Mishka.

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      From happychick July 19

      did you delete me ? xx

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      From MarkD1 July 19

      Hey bud. Hope all is well with you. I'm doing pretty good. Sometimes I feel a little guilty feeling good when others feel so bad. Maybe it gives them something to look forward to. Hope you are feeling good too. Take it easy and enjoy your weekend. Mark

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      From shockme July 17

      just saying hi. trish

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      From californiagurl July 17

      "GOOD MORNING"

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  • Goals

    Goal Completed on May 4, 08
  • Support Groups

    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      My wife said she wanteda divorce.She said there was no one else involved. She had 3 affairs in 1 month. See my profile.

      Treatments

      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      I work with mainly women they give me hugs when I them.They are true friends. It helps.
      Talking Working / Worked
      I havea new bst frindwho I talk to everynight on the intrnet. I met her through DS. We share poblems and laugh together.
    • Close Single Dads

      My wife has left the home I am looking after my 3 daughters

    • Open Child Support & Custody

      My wife had a least three affairs I kicked her out to the last lover. Who she is with now. I have our 3 daughters, aged 12 15 and 17. I am asking nothing from her financially, except for her to give them pocket money, which she rarely does. I may go for maintenance if she continues this way.

    • Open Diets & Weight Maintenance

      I lost weight initially because of my marriage breakup. Now I maintain my weight by exercising and watching what I eat.

      Treatments

      Eating Healthier Foods Working / Worked
      Watching calories is what it is all about and eating fresh unprocessed food.
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      Exercise works
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