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    About Me

    I've been married for 13 years with 3 daughters and my wife wants out. We tried counseling, but there's no hope in her eyes. I've found that I'm very dependent on my wife and need to learn new ways. I work for an eCommerce company as an architect of web sites for fortune 500 companies. I work from home which makes this even more difficult.

    Interests

    sports, guitar, playing pool, nights out with friends, dancing, self improvement

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  • Journal

    • Paper signing day

      Mood June 13, 2008 5:38pm

      I've done a pretty good job lately keeping busy and keeping my mind off things ... until today. I leave in an hour to go sign the final divorce …

    • Chery's new beau

      Mood April 30, 2008 12:13pm

      I was doing pretty good for the past few weeks and then last night Alissa (my 17 year old) told me that when she stopped by Chery's to return …
    • Getting healthy and happy

      Mood April 25, 2008 6:40pm

      I work from home and go to the YMCA almost every day so the challenge for me is just watching what I eat and getting my stomach shrunken down to not …
    • Am i really sad?

      Mood April 24, 2008 3:10am

      I'm starting to feel like I'm sad because circumstances say that I should be sad. I have every reason to be happy. I have 3 great girls …

    • When is a good day coming?

      Mood April 22, 2008 5:32pm

      Just when things start to get a little better and you pick your head up again everything has been problem after problem. 

       

      A few weeks ago …

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    Progress

    5 %

    Current Weight (Lbs)
    223
  • Support Groups

    • Close Codependency

      My wife wants to divorce me and I'm sick inside over it. I'm very codependent on her. I base all my happiness on things that we do together and don't see any happiness in my future without her.

      Treatments

      Reading Somewhat Helpful
      The Power of Positive Thinking ... been somewhat helpful thus far.
      Talking Somewhat Helpful
      I am seeing a counselor and things sound good during the sessions, but implementing the ideas if hard for me.
      \"Codependent No More\" Working / Worked
      I'm reading the book now, but my mind is all over the place and am having a hard time even remembering what I am reading.
    • Close Depression

      I've been married for 13 years, lost touch with me and now seem to base all my happiness on my wife. I am smothering her and now she wants out. I'm lost thiking about it all and have no friends in AZ to turn to. I work from home so it's difficult to meet people.

      Treatments

      Lexapro Somewhat Helpful
      Seems to make things better
    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      Treatments

      Couples Counseling Not Working
      Even after talking to a councelor a few times, wife still wants divorce
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