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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Our anniversary is coming up in just a few months. Jenn sent an email today about wanting to remarry me and asked if we could reclaim our anniversary. I wonder if it's too soon to renew our vows? I wonder if I'm ready or if she is? It will be our 14th anniversary and I'm thinking I might like to wait until our 15th. Plus, it will be 2010 and that's just pretty damn cool if you ask me. It's also an easier date to remember being that it's a nice round number. I don't know...what do you all think. Too soon?

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I thin kyou should do what you are most comfortable with, renewing your vows sounds great, you do however have tro have the right foundation fo rhte marriage and the realtionship to contunue and just saying the vows isn't the answer, meaning them and sticking to them is the tricky part as we know.
Good Luck

lilijbr
I have thought about doing this at some point as well, but I want to wait until H feels like he believes that I will stay. I think it is too soon. I think that you may be in the same position and it would probably be better to wait until you feel more confident about it.

ibex
I've been thinking about this same thing. My anniversary is Sept 16th and it will be 19 years. neither of us is wearing out wedding bands and I thought it would be nice if I planned to meet my H at our church (where we also got married) and even if we didn't renew vows but had a special blessing for our rings and ourselves and had that done that day. Maybe then I could feel like I am really recommitted sine I am not leaving or making plans to leave just yet (he is the one who cheated). Then I feel different the next day and like my heart isn't a 100% in making this marriage work. I feel like maybe that means I'm not ready. It's a hard one. I think like you next year will be the 20th maybe then is a good time. Good luck. P.S. I saw your pictures. You have a beautiful family.

naive1966
I'm a combination of the first two responses.

Ultimately, only you know whether this is too soon or not.

That said, just going from what you've written on this site, I would say it's too early.

But my opinion on your marriage is worthless. You've got to do what's right for you.

FrankLawyer
Thanks, all. I'm feeling it's too early.

wjztrimmer