wjztrimmer's Journal

I think, maybe, I can see the light at the end of this dark, dank tunnel. It's not a bright light just yet, but, I can see something that looks like light. I feel deep changes inside of me. I'm responding to J differently and it's become easier for me to admit when I'm wrong. It makes things so much easier and better for both of us when we stop fighting for our position and can admit that we might be wrong. It works wonders.

I'm working on telling her what I need but sometimes my timing is off. Regardless, I'm telling her what I need and that's better than being passive/aggressive. It's amazing how a huge dose of betrayal and heart break can be such a good motivator.

I feel like I'm also being a different dad to my kids and it's paying off hugely. I woke up grateful this morning, not for J's affair, but for the people I have in my life who are climbing this mountain with me.