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me: let me make this incredibly clear. don't even wave at jenn. no second glances, nothing.
her: who is this and who are you talking about?
me: a message for will
her: well eff of then
me: is this willy?
her: no, this isn't. he is busy right now so if this is another his little girlfriends, he is off the market and he doesn't do shows or booty calls anymore.
me: no, not one of his gf's. just the husband of a woman he f*****
her: i'll tell him you are being rude and he won't like that.
her: well, i'll tell him you are concerned and tell your wife to leave him alone if she is bothering him, he belongs to me now. no more message now or I will...
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a follow up to my last entry....the text message I sent the bastard read: "let me make this incredibly clear. don't even wave at jenn. no second glances, nothing!"
he'll text me back....i hope he threatens me. i'm still waiting for a good reason to send his wife's attorney that letter.
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his new girlfriend is texting me...we've exchanged several messages so far. i'll post them later...feeling like i'm in high school again; this is bad.
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Oh, I can't wait to read those. Post them!
I asked J this morning if she had seen the OM around town recently. I ask every once in a while when I sense something; I can't explain that, just that I get a feeling. She told me that she saw the OM the evening before. He was ahead of her in his car and he waved at her. I asked her how she responded and she said, "I waved back." She went on to explain that she was upset at herself for waving back, that it was just a natural reaction to someone waving at you.
I don't see it as a setback and while it upset me a bit, I was glad that she told me. She could have kept it to herself but she told me knowing that I wouldn't be happy about it. I saw that as major progress. I also saw my response as progress as well. I just told her that I was glad she told me.
It did make me think about calling the OM, though. Just to let him know that there is really no need for him to even wave at J, that it would be good for him to know that he should watch his step. I'm sure I won't call him....more restraint!
We ended up taking the kids downtown to see sand sculptures. I went on a 20 mile bike ride, lifted weights tonight (my stress relief) and J went for a run. We had a short conversation about renewing our vows and that I thought it was too early in the process to think about that. After all, she had sex with the OM just days after our last anniversary. She wasn't happy about my decision, but I think she understands. What really matters is not so much the ceremony as much as our comittment to our promises each day.
Going to bed.
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I'm happy for both of you. I haven't seen the ow around except for twice with my wife (the first it took a lot of restraint not to look at her when she was close - this was a month after the breakup. The second time was from afar). I'm not sure what my reaction will be. I'm sure I can ignore her, but I wonder what I'll do if she tries to say something friendly or waves at me. There is a natural inclination not to ignore people, especially people that aren't strangers. Maybe it's a good sign that when I think I see her, even though it turns out not be, I feel physically uncomfortable.
Here's to continued success (as I raise an imaginary glass of booze).
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I am surprised that he waved at her. I actually do think it would be a good idea for you to confront him on this and tell him that it is inappropriate for him to wave or acknowledge her at all. This will also let him know that she told you about this and your solidarity. I don't think that he should believe that he can have any kind of contact that you will not know about. I think that even a wave can encourage contact.
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I agree with Ibex..I think you should contact him and tell him that you expect zero contact! And a wave is not innocent...it's inappropriate under the circumstances... it will also let him know that your wife is comitted to you and tells you everything!
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Ugh. This douchebag was stringing along several different women at once, then? It's bad enough to have an affair with a married woman. But for fuck's sake, at least have the decency to make it appear special. Don't ruin a marriage and break up a family just because you want bragging rights and a piece of ass.
What a dickhead.
FrankLawyer
I can't believe this trick wants to claim a man who has so many "little girlfriends". Sounds like a winner to me! She sounds like a spaz too.
Good couple.
kellyaa812000
That's what happens...these are all such low lifes that they never react to things in a normal way....for her to react to your email that way is nuts!
If my boyfriend received an email from some woman's husband...I would be asking that guy all kinds of questions...not threatening him and defending my loser boyfriend!
jrsygrl13
i suspect that this is the woman who just left her husband to be with him. i wouldn't expect anything more from someone like that. i'm expecting that he'll call me soon. i won't answer his call, just wanted him to know that Jenn told me he waved at her and wanted him to keep his guard up.
wjztrimmer
He was sleeping around with ANOTHER married woman?
Wow.
I kinda want to kick his ass.
FrankLawyer
Frank-
Want his address and phone number?
wjztrimmer
I'm ready to call him too!
jrsygrl13
Is the OM married?
faithnhealing
W..good for you for texting him. What a loser. I hope the girl gives him the message.
ibex
faith- no, he's not married; thankfully. it's funny but all of my friends want his phone number. My friend Don wants to call him and ask him when he's moving and wants to offer to rent him a moving truck and movers. Tim wants to invite him out for a beer (and a bar fight). Chris wants to say, "what happened to you as a child." And now some of you want to call him...I love it. It sounds like the woman he's with is a real keeper; she also sounds like she's just hit puberty based on the her text messages.
wjztrimmer
I don't want to call him, I want to kick his ass.
Better yet, I want to fuck his girlfriend. Let him know how it feels.
FrankLawyer
His time will come, don't you worry!!!
faithnhealing
good one, Frank. i've heard nothing else from him or his "lady."
wjztrimmer