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special3 (10:21 pm)
You have a great attitude! Keep up the good work! Also,I looked at your pictures, wow you have the cutest kids!
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1women (05/13/08)
Thanks for your thoughts wjz, it is good advice and I will use it should the opportunity arise. Hugs, Lorie
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kat416 (05/07/08)
Hey trim!! Sorry I missed your birthday; hope it went well and you had a great date night. Happy belated birthday!! let me know how your night went, awesome idea, (sure it was yours.. you're too cool)!!- k
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| Infidelity |
| I am a non-profit Executive with 3 boys (ages 3, 5 & 8). Married for 13 years to the only woman I have ever truly loved. Found out on February 10th, 2008 that she had a an affair from 10/06 to 1/08. I'm putting my life back together and unsure of whether or not she'll stay. She wants to but I don't know if she has it in her. | |
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| A good dog (Somewhat Helpful) My basset hound Bailey is good therapy. He has no idea whats going on and he doesnt care. He just lives for the moment and sniffs things that are to his liking. Hes my hero. | |
| Daily Strength (Working / Worked) I love this group. | |
| Forgiveness (Too Soon To Tell) I was able to tell my wife I forgive her, and I say it to myself 20 or more times a day. | |
| Good Friends (Working / Worked) I am rich in friends and while I dont expect them to jump in the water with me theyve kept me from drowning. Thanks Chris Don Eric Steve Dean Lane and James. I love you guys. | |
| Individual Counseling (Working / Worked) With a psychologist who had an affair 18 years ago. Hes written several books and he and his wife do conferences and classes together for couples who are dealing with infidelity. | |
| Journaling (Working / Worked) I write out my thoughts especially the angry ones in a journal. This helps me process through the toughest emotions and provides a safe place for me to explore those. | |
| Letting Go (Working / Worked) It is a false idea to think we can control someone else. Its also false to think that any of us have any guarantees in life. Letting go helps me live in the moment. | |
| Music (Somewhat Helpful) Good playlists are a must. Thank you iTunes and Apple for giving me good music to listen to while I work through things. | |
| New Hobby (Too Soon To Tell) I took up photography and will soon be posting some additional photos. | |
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| My wife had an 18 month long on again off again affair. We are committed to staying together and improving our relationship. | |
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| Couples Counseling (Somewhat Helpful) | |
| Talking (Working / Worked) | |
| Writing (Working / Worked) | |
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