I knew when I woke up one morning something was not right. I think I was in denial for a couple of days before I realized I needed to call the doctor. The pain in my back was not getting better. I was trying to convince myself that it was kidney stones and that the baby was fine. I will never forget those words from the doctor, "we saw the fetus, but there was no heartbeat". I was almost at my 8th week. Nothing has happened at this point, and I'm not sure if I should wait or schedule the D&C. I don't feel like I'm getting the right guidance or direction from the doctors or nurses. I'm feeling lost and confused!