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    About Me

    I am in the process of waiting to get gastric bypass surgery on Aug 12. I am divorcing my unfaithful husb of 23ys right afer that. I told him to leave my home. I met a new man in my life. It is a long distance romance but I will wait a see how it evolves. I have 1 daughter age 37. She lives in Maine. I am Bipolar but I am totally controlled by meds and I walk the straight and narrow. I see a Pdoc for meds and a Phd for counseling.

    Interests

    I like to crochet small blankets for animal shelters I like to read Ann Rule true crime books. I collect tiny stuffed Boyd's bears. I have 3 kitties that I love. I love going to my daughters place in Maine on the lake.

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  • Journal

    • bad ekg

      Mood September 13, 2008 2:51pm

      Well on my preop for gastric by pass surgery it was discovered I had had a silent heart attack. Not just a little one but a very bad one. I went to …

    • Louie

      Mood August 16, 2008 1:47pm

      Some days I just can't understand Louie. I called him several times but he ignored me on the phone because he was with his sister he had not seen …

    • Louie Goodbye

      Mood July 26, 2008 8:17pm

      I said goodbye on Louie's answering machine and told him I would't be calling him anymore. I told him to have good luck on finding a new job …
    • phoning Louie

      Mood July 24, 2008 2:41pm

      I called Louie the other day and he told me he was very stressed out and he didnt need my drama in my life because he had enough drama in his life …
    • Manic

      Mood July 15, 2008 9:29am

      I haven't benn able to see my Pdoc because I had no money for gas. It was 2 weeks and I ran out of medication. My husband had $1800 embezzeled …

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    • Hug

      From babypoka July 26

      Sorry Bon I just read your journal entry and that is awful. Look for someone else. Barb

    • Hug

      From InfinityLtd July 15

      Thank you. I really want to get back into programming. Hopefully someday, somebody will take a chance and hire me.

    • Hug

      From babypoka July 9

      I am sorry. Keep strong.

    • I’m With You

      From hurtingbadly July 1

      i would have taken great delight in driving my ex to have her stomach pumped,they aren't gentle in the casualty department with people that are wasting their valuable time Keep strong,i'll be thinking of you

    • Prayer

      From babypoka June 25

      I am not the prayer type but I will if you think it will help.

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  • Goals

    Progress

    30 %

    Goal End Date is May 27, 09 189 more days.
    Goal Completed on Jun 9, 08
  • Support Groups

    • Close Adoption

      I am an adopted child. I was psycologically abused by my adopted mother all my life. I became estranged from her finally at age 52 when she in anger,told me my real biological name.

    • Close Infidelity

      My husband told my tonight that he has fallen in love with a woman and wants to have a child with her. I cannot bear him a child because I am 57 and this woman is only 36. He is getting a divorce from me in the next year and this 36yo woman is getting one from her husband too. I have been married to my husband for 23 years and I am heartbroken.

    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      tobeboo2 hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction

      I've been married to a man with ED for 23yrs wirh no sex. He doesn't even try anymore. Pills don't work and he wont she a psychologist. Noe he says he is divorcing me to have a baby with a woman 14yrs his junior. I laughed. They haven't had sex yet and they have been seeing each other for 4 months. Worst of all he works with her and her huband is their boss. I think ED sucks pardon the pun.

    • Open Healthy Relationships

      My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We met on the internet. He lives in Alabama and I live in Mass. We fell in love over the phone in the past month. He says I am the only woman for him for the rest of his life. He was going to come up to see me this week but he did not have the money. Well this week he accepted a big job in CA and he is moving there on July 2nd. I am just worried our relationship will get lost when he gets to know new people in CA. He will forget all about me

      Treatments

      Patience Working / Worked
      Hoping he will always love me even though he is 3000 miles away.
      Writing Working / Worked
      I write to let out all my insecurities and doubts and sadness,
    • Open Senior Dating & Sexuality

      My boyfriend is 61 and I am 57 and we have a great sex life. Age doesn't play into it. You're as young as you feel. Try having sex more often with your wife,also there are other meds you can try besides Viagra that can do the trick like Levitra for example. Luckily my boyfried doesn't need it now but someday he might. Just relax and enjoy each other.

    • Open Coronary Heart Disease

      It was found on an EKG that I had had a bad myocadial infaction of the interior wall of my heart. I felt nothing. Now I have to have a heart cath. My heart is only perfusing at 27% where normal is 50-75%. The doctor said I could drop dead at any time right now.

      Treatments

      Aspirin Working / Worked
      just started
      Dietary Modification Working / Worked
      I am on a liquid diet
      Lipitor Working / Worked
      lowers colesterol level with diet
    • Open Life After Divorce

      I am in the process of getting a divorce to an unfaithful man

      Treatments

      Ativan Working / Worked
      ativan helps me to cope with the situationno side effects
      Walking Working / Worked
      gives you wonderful endorphines if you keep it up on a daily basis
      Trazodone Working / Worked
      helps me to fall asleep at night
    • Open Diets & Weight Maintenance

      I was going to have bariatric surgery but the ekg on preop day showed I had had a heart attack. So now I keep my portions very small and exercise everyday and I am loosing weight on my own

      Treatments

      Eating Healthier Foods Working / Worked
      eating no take out food, steaming my vegees,no sweets or fat
      Eat Less Working / Worked
      I eat on a small dish and I measure the size of food I take
      Physical Exercise Working / Worked
      walk everyday starting with a half a mile then build up to 4miles a day
      Weight Watchers Working / Worked
      group comitment to each persons individual goal. They talk about a different subject every time it counts. They also educate you on tricks to weight eg if you feel hungry, maybe we can go to a concert of our favorate artist
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