hoopigapi's Journal

Alright, so his mom called me today and I haven't talked to her in a month or so.I ended up telling her that this affair he had was not just going on for a month after we separated as she thought but a 10 month long double life her son was leading.During our chat she told me that she was ashamed that she raised a son who would do something like that.

Then I got to thinking about him offering to let me call "her" the other day and when I called the phone wasn't in service. So I asked him, "we're telling the truth right? When you gave me her phone number the other day you already knew that the number wasn't in service didn't you? And the reason you knew was because you called her."

He said,"yes, but I just called her to give her a heads up that you were going to call her." He said he thought she deserved that....AGAIN...ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? I said what the F**k did I deserve when she was sleeping with my husband???

So told him he had no right to contact her for any reason what so ever and that if he ever did that was it. I told him if you ever lie to me again we are done...if I find out next week that you are lying to me we are done.

Then a little later he gave me a hug and held me and said "I am going to make this right".  I think maybe he gets it a little now.

We are going to watch some tv together and have a little wine.

I am hopeful that the "odor" is gone now and that we may actually have a set up for a special evening. He seems up for it.

Wish me luck.