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gwadsj's Profile

Feeling: Horrible  - Horrible
Gender: Male
Age: 43
Location: Nowwhere, PA
Interests:
cars camping racing hunting i like all kinds of music and would love to learn to enjoy life again how do i start over and when does the pain stop she still lives with me and will not leave because of the kids we cant move on with her here and we are all stuck in limbo
About Me:
my wife went back to work after 10 yrs and found a new lover now wants a divorce i'm 6'3" 205pds i have 2 kids and lost in this new world she was my life my love my all


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    scousejo (6:06 am)

    Hey babe.I so wish you had a smile one day.You will get there.we will do it together.Have a good weekend.


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    equity (11:05 pm)

    HI Thank you so much !!! How are you doing????? thinking of you Sherry


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    Begin07 (10:53 pm)

    Um, thanks for the friend invite. You realize that the avatar is total parody and that's not really my rack, right? :-D

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Goal End Date is Mar 24, 08 54 days ago.

Support Groups

 Breakups & Divorce
my wife of 20 years decided in june to have an affair with a one legged bald biker type who is a convicted fellon for vehicle homicide.3dui and one possesion charge she tells me she loves me but is not in love with me she tells me she connects with him and he only looks bad on paper he is really a good person . oh by the way he his been married for 20yrs also we both have 2 children each both the same age 11&14 years old i love her to death and was blind sided by this 
Treatments
 Couples Counseling (Not Working)
she won't go anymore
 Forgiveness (Not Working)
she wont give up the new love so i cant forgive yet
 Leave (Considering)
left for a couple of left for3 days and thought why me she should be the one
 Support from Friends & Family (Working / Worked)
talked to alot of people family and friends and it does help alot
 Talking (Working / Worked)
 Time (Not Working)
makes it worse
49 Members 1066 Posts
 Infidelity
wife informed me she was having an affair with a one legged man who was conviced of vehicular homicide 3 dui counts and a possesion charge who gets her i distance myself from her over the last couple of years but i was depressed because she would not talk to me she found this guy at work after 10 yrs of being home with the kids she only worked there for 4 months before the affair began and now she wants a divorce 
Treatments
 Couples Counseling (Not Working)
she was told to quit working there to work on us that was the end of counseling she still see him and lives with me for the last 11 months
 Divorce (Working / Worked)
got my freedom papers so the whore can rot in hell now
 Forgiveness (Not Working)
tried told her i have forgiven and will forget has no effect said damage is done
 Leave (Working / Worked)
she leaving may 1st to get on with her life now maybe i can get on with mine
22 Members 97 Posts


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