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    About Me

    My husband and I made it to our 3rd anniversary, then he decided to leave. Our divorce was final on July 15, 2008. I'm struggling with depression, grief, crippling anger and the loss of all my dreams and hopes. I'm the mother of a 4 year old boy who has serious behavior issues. Life is very stressful for me and it's taking its toll on my spirit and my health.

    Interests

    Art, Poetry, True Crime, Horror movies and books, point and click flash games

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  • Goals

    Goal Completed on Sep 9, 08
    Goal Completed on Jul 30, 08
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    • Close Breakups & Divorce

      Married for over 3 years, separated in Sept. 2007, divorced on July 15, 2008. Very unhappy, heartbroken and struggling to cope.

      Treatments

      Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
      This is hard for me. I've forgiven him for his infidelity to the best of my ability, but I'm still having issues with trust.
      Psychotherapy Not Working
      Didn't work. I quit.
      Reading Somewhat Helpful
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      The family is very upset with my husband. They are all supportive of me.
      Talking Not Working
      Talking to him only makes me sad and angry now, most of the time.
      Time Somewhat Helpful
      I'm feeling a bit stronger. Not much but every step is a step forward.
    • Close Infidelity

      My husband had an emotional affair with another woman and is way too close to a female friend/ex-coworker. Very inappropriate in my opinion. He calls her his "best friend" and I'm struggling with trust issues.

      Treatments

      Crying Somewhat Helpful
      I do this ALL the time.
      Divorce Working / Worked
      was final on July 15, 2008. :(
      Forgiveness Somewhat Helpful
      I've forgiven him for what he did but it still hurts.
    • Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)

      I have a very spirited 3 year old boy. He has horrible behavioral problems and is difficult for me to handle.

      Treatments

      Child Time-out Somewhat Helpful
      Works sometimes, sometimes it doesn't.
      Patience Working / Worked
      Difficult but I'm trying.
      Positive Reinforcement Somewhat Helpful
      Sometimes he responds, other times he could care less.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Everyone is wonderful!
    • Open Anger Management

      My ex husband and I separated in Sept. 2007 and divorced on July 15, 2008. He doesn't live with us and rarely sees our son, who is 4 and has a conduct disorder. I'm struggling with anger issues concerning my ex and with a 4-year old who is unbelievably difficult.

      Treatments

      Music Somewhat Helpful
      Calms me down sometimes.
      Writing Too Soon to Tell
      Seems to get some of this out of my system but I still feel overwhelmed with rage.
    • Open Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

      My son is 4. His behavior is absolutely, unbelievably horrible. I am at my wits end with him and I feel like running away and never coming back.

      Treatments

      Child Time-out Not Working
      He will not stay in time out. I have to replace him hundreds of times and even that has NO effect.
    • Open Depression
      Type: Clinical (Major) Depression

      Diagnosed with major depression many years ago.

      Treatments

      Art Working / Worked
      sketching / painting help sometimes
      Effexor Working / Worked
      Working so far but if I miss a dose, the withdrawl symptoms are HORRIBLE
      Psychotherapy Not Working
      Didn't help at all
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      My family is wonderful
      Writing Too Soon to Tell
      Keeping a journal here online and a private one offline
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