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About Me
Updated Profile: I am a stay at home mom with two wonderful children. On January 13, 2008 my husband officially left me. He has destroyed us financially as well as enjoyed the company of a 27yr. old behind my back. I am from Los Angeles and have been trying to move back home for 3 years. Was almost there until he changed is mind and left me. He is living my life, the one he got from me, while I'm stuck in a place with no friends or beach!
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I don't know anymore. I've been in pain for so long and have raised the kids alone for 2yrs. that I don't remeber what I like to do. I need to find out.
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happy4me gave JOANNE1971 a Hug 4:09pm
Hi! Thanks for the mnessage. I'm getting there. Its hard not texting because I really want to know what…
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happy4me replied to zsa’s discussion post Ever told someone they're BP? in the Bipolar Disorder support group 4:07pm
Zsa~ I'm the one who got left from my husband. His dad did the same thing to him and his brothers. His…
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happy4me replied to amartin1’s discussion post First day of marriage counseling together in the Breakups & Divorce support group 1:30pm
I have never been to marraige counseling (my husband refused to go) but i would stay calm even if you…
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happy4me replied to TriedMyBest’s discussion post No Trust, No Marriage in the Breakups & Divorce support group 1:18pm
I am sorry you are going through this. I am in the same situation except I finally ended it yesterday.…
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Men take longer to process information than women do. He might not even realize the implications of what you said until Thursday. He'll get the message clearly if you stop texting hm. If you continue talking to him he won't realize "Hey. This time I think she really means it." I know, easier said than done. Hang in there! HUGS, Joanne
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HUGS!!!! Take care of yourself! Today is your day. Make the most of it!
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Thanks. Weekend was okay. Every day has been a struggle lately, but it will get better. How was yours?
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{{{{{happy}}}} really big squeeze bear hug from me, He IS NOT WORTH TEXTING!! I had some cravings or stupidity flashes to call or text my ex. Dont do it. Try to be positive and focus on you 1st and only.
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you have a friend for all the support and enouragement you'll need, just call out anytime. it won't be easy, but we'll be here for you.
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Close Breakups & Divorce
I've been married 16 years. I have 2 children. I found out on Valentines day 2007 that my husband was having a myspace affair. She ended up living down the street. He ended it that day. Then on Halloween 2007 I found out he was having another affaiir. He also went on a 25,000. shopping spree. All credit cards. All this in 4 months. Last week he told me it was over for good. Losing everything, house husband. I need alot of advice and help to try to move on and take care of my kids and me.
Treatments
- Forgiveness Not Working
- He didn't care I forgave him
- Paxil Working / Worked
- Working, but gaining alot of wait!
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Talking Somewhat Helpful
- I would be much worse if I couldn't talk to anyone.
Close Depression
Type: Clinical (Major) DepressionI was severely depressed for 2 years. I never thought I would be normal again. I would sit in corners of my room for days. My husband and children suffered alot because of this. After many doctors and medicine I finally found a good dr. and I started feeling good within a week and have never gone back to that scary world. It has been 3 years now. There is hope!!
Treatments
- Lamictal Working / Worked
- I had been put on every medication you can think of. Within a week of this medicine I was feeling much better. Still taking it 2 1/2 years later and doing great.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Took a while to find a therepist I clicked with. When I did it helped so much
- Writing Working / Worked
Open Bipolar Disorder
My husband had been depressed for a year and then he took some zoloft and he went crazy. He started an affair, spent 25,000 dollars and has told me he is leaving. He wont go back to the dr. and doesn't believe that he is bi- polar. He thinks he's fine because he has never felt this good in his life. I need help trying to deal with him leaving and trying to help him realize he's sick.
Open Family & Friends of Bipolar
Small update: June 30 2008 My husband was mis DX with depression 1 1/2 yr ago.In sept. he started acting very strange. He was diagnosed bi-polar. He doesn't believe the dr. so he stopped seeing him. He works 5 hours away so I was only seeing him on the weekends. By the 2nd week in Sept. he had started cheating, opened a secret c.card, etc. As of today, he has spent 25,000 most on credit,girl in NOT gone,just found out she is still around, wants a divorce. It will be 17yr married July 10th.
Open Fibromyalgia
I was DX with fibro 8 yrs ago this June.It tokk a year to Dx me properly. I am alot better now but went through some very difficult times.
Treatments
- Aqua Therapy Working / Worked
- Love my Jacuzzi
- Cyclobenzaprine Working / Worked
- It helped but not using it now
- Cymbalta Not Working
- Didn't help
- Duragesic Patch Not Working
- Sent me to the mental hospital. it was the main cause of my breakdown.
- Effexor Working / Worked
- Didn't work
- Elavil Working / Worked
- Think it worked but not using now
- Guaifenesin Not Working
- Lyrica Working / Worked
- I use it when the pain is severe. Otherwise the side effects are to much. But it works great.
- Morphine Working / Worked
- Worked for awhile but then needed more. So I was put on the patch.
- Neurontin Working / Worked
- Worked a little bit. Not enough to stay on
- Zanaflex Working / Worked
- Subutex Working / Worked
- It was the best thing to happen to me. Works great. Still have pain but nothing compared to before. Have been using it for almost 3yrs.
Open Infidelity
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