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About Me
I am back from Germany now. I am 53 yo. I am starting over after a breakup. I'm seeking healthy relationships in my life and want to do all I can to take care of myself emotionally. Would love to make some good friends here. I feel lonely sometimes, but am starting therapy next week. So things are looking up.
Interests
animal spirituality friendship personal growth compassion
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Friendship Friendship is a Golden Chain, The links are friends so dear, And like a rare and precious jewel It's treasured more each year... It's clasped together firmly With a love that's deep and true, And it's rich with happy memories and fond recollections, too... Time can't destroy its beauty For, as long as memory lives, Years can't erase the pleasure That the joy of friendship gives... For friendship is a priceless gift That can't be bought or sold, But to have an understanding friend Is worth far more than gold... And the Golden Chain of Friendship Is a strong and blessed tie Binding kindred hearts together As the years go passing by
Ray of Sunshine
Hi Happy New Year!! I hope 2009 brings you all the happiness & health you are waiting for!! Hugs!! Eileen
Present
Again...Happy holidays!!
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Santa
Hey...chin up!! Santa's coming to town!! Hugs..Tina
Little Love
good morning, sweet, sweet friend of mine..HOW are you?!?!!?! I miss chatting with you,have been sick ALL WEEKEND long..ugh! When will it stop?!!?!!? Love you lots!!! xoxoxoxoxo
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Support Groups
Close Healthy Relationships
Back from Germany. Going to anger mgt and 12 Step groups. Am doing much better, but still a long way to go.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Talking Working / Worked
- Talking to counselor has helped some.
- Writing Working / Worked
- This helps some.
Close Healthy Sex
I wonder if I'm addicted to sex and/or relationships. It would be nice to be able to have a healthy sexual relationship, but I'm not sure what that means. I'm in the midst of a breakup, but don't want to return to unhealthy sex behaviors of the past.
Treatments
- Patience Working / Worked
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Breakups & Divorce
I'm breaking up with my girlfriend. I'm 53 years old and have been with her for 2 years. Its very hard, but I know its the right thing to do.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Financial Challenges
Treatments
- Cut Up Credit Cards Working / Worked
- Filing for Bankruptcy Somewhat Helpful
Open Brain Injury
I had a TBI when I was 5 years old. My parent never discussed it with me, so I never realized anything was wrong. Now I'm 53 years old. I had some neuro testing a few years ago which revealed memory deficits, impulsivity, and emotional issues. So all my life, I've never really realized I had any of these issues related to TBI. So I feel like I was really let down as I was growing up. Now I have to deal with it.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Anger Management
I really have anger issues, especially when I get into a relationship. I know I'm the one responsible for my feelings, including anger. No one else is responsible but me. I need to learn how to deal with these feelings that come upon me so suddenly.
Treatments
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
Open Sex / Pornography Addiction
I'm currently in recovery. I've recently started back in going to SAA meetings. I'm reaching out for support.
Treatments
- Group Therapy Working / Worked
- Great for support. You cannot recover alone. You have to work the program every day. There are no days off in recovery.
- Running Working / Worked
- Great stress reliever.
Open Families & Friends Affected By Suicide
Have friends who are survivors and am interested in making people more aware of affects of suicide on those left behind.
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