lauren032's Journal

My mother-in-law is over stepping her bonds.  She wanted to have this conversation with me about the Egg Donor.  She has asked me questions and I answer them.  This time she asked me, if I am going to tell my child how they were concieved.  I told her no, and why do I need to tell them anything.  They will see pictures of me being pregnant and also pictures of them in the hospital.  Why would I need to say anything.  My husband and I have talked about this and there is no reason to say anything.  She on the other hand has a total different opoion.  She has the right, but not to force it upon me.  She was telling me how can I keep this big secret from my child, and that we should not having secrets from our children.  I politly said that Mu husband (her son) and I have made our decsion on not telling the child, and that I would appretate people not talking to my child about this, since this is between my husband and me.  She then stated clearly this is a sensitive subject.

You think!!!!!!  I swear she thinks that this is only my husband's baby and not mine.  I DON'T LIKE THAT!!!!!!!!!!  I told my husband about the conversation and I really hope that he says something to her about it, because I restrained myself from speaking my mind!!!!!

Funny thing is she never speaks about it infront of her son only to me when we are alone.  Nice right!