This thought came to me while cooking supper tonight and I wonder if I will ever find the answer........I am wondering how it is that I was not brought up in an alcoholic environment and yet my sister and I both chose men with drinking problems? If you want to be technical, my ex-husband could fall into this category per se because a year before he and I met he gave up a seven year drinking habit...It doesn't matter......my sister and I both ended up with men who drank and we were not raised with this around us. I guess I don't understand how this can happen. Guess I'm pretty ignorant, huh?
maybe you were raised thinking you could help save people.... just a thought.
MEGNEEDSABABY
I've seen this happen in my own family. My mother and aunt both married alcholics. Yet, they never grew up in an alcholic enivironment. I have no advice...I can only relate.
Jessie86
No there could be plenty of reasons for it i wasnt raised with a father but tend to associate myself with men that are verbally abusive. It may not have anything to do with you at all, you could possibly be analyzing to hard.
DivineEssence