Virginia3’s Profile

Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Child

My son was tragically killed at aged 19, on 16th August 2007, by a train as he attempted to cross the line by jumping the safety barriers at the level crossing. Life has become unbearable since he's been gone. He was my rock and my best friend and I miss him so much. I will never forget the night the police knocked on my door - a mother's worst nightmare! I can only hope that in time life will become bearable again and that when I smile or laugh it will be genuine.

Treatments

Crying Somewhat Helpful

Crying relieves the pressure build-up in my head for a while.

Grief Counseling Somewhat Helpful

Counselling seems to be helping me to understand the different feelings and emotions that I have never felt before. My counsellor helps me to find my own answers.

Keeping Busy Somewhat Helpful

I am having a second attempt of going back to work this week. The first time was too soon and I didn't cope.

Pets Working / Worked

I have one dog that is great for cuddles.

Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked

Family and friends have been very supportive.

Talking Working / Worked

I find it helps to keep talking it over and over in order to try and accept what has happened.

Time Somewhat Helpful

Comparing my pain from the beginning up until now I don't feel quite so bad. I think I can put that down to understanding my grief more.