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I am 17 and dealing with the loss of my brother Ian. This is the first serious loss that I've experienced, and im not sure how to go about it. I am a senior in high school, and i cant wait for college and the opportunity to really have my own life. I've been through some pretty rough stuff, but all in all it made me who i am, and I wouldnt change any of it. I am a very strong person, but sometimes I need that little extra push, and thats why i'm here.
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i love music. I was a colorguard for 3 years, but this year, um, lets say our band program didnt quite work out. hehe. I'm random and funny and laidback and understanding, so anyone like that would be cool to meet. :]
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thank you.. i'm glad someone wrote me back i really needed to talk to someone about what i'm going through..and i also hope you and your boyfriend work things out..it's hard on me to keep everything in like i have been doing.. i'm not really sure how to back away and let him have his space i mean i want to but at the same time i cant.. hes in hawaii right now with his family on vacation and i just miss him so much but i cant really talk to him since he has limited service so its like i have no one else to talk to if something big happens to me i really want to give him his space but i dont know how.. thank you again for reading up on my latest problem LOL and taking the time to comment back it really helped
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I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I know you miss him so much.I lost my 25 year old son a few months ago in August from a motorcycle wreck. I also have a daughter that is 17 years old like you, and she misses her brother very much just like you do. It is so hard on our whole family. She is also a senior in high school this year, so she has alot on her. I don't have any answers for you. My daughter (Paige) says when she starts missing him really bad, she keeps in ming that she will see him again one day, and that he is in a better place. My son and your brother are both in happier place. Pkease feel free to message me if you need to, and I will try to help. I am still grieving so much for my son. Hugs, Kelly
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I am sorry for your loss. There are no words anyone can say that will ease your pain. Anger is all part of the grieving process. Be gentle and understanding with yourself. Give yourself time to grieve. All of us at DS undstand your loss and will offer friendship. Hugs, Astird
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Type: Loss of a SiblingMy brother died on november 23, 2007 of an accidental overdose. He was 22 years old. He abused over the counter meds....I am only 17 and I dont know how to handle my feelings right now.
Treatments
- Crying Too Soon to Tell
- I cry all of the time, just randomly. I'm not sure if its helping yet, but im sure it will eventually.
- Getting Angry Too Soon to Tell
- Whenever i think about the details of his death and why he did it and who could be responsible, wow, i get so angry. I picture myself punching walls, knocking things over, and when I talk to my mom about it i scream at her and get hysterical.
- Music Somewhat Helpful
- When you find a song that lifts all of your worries away with its enchanted melody....well, um..:]
- Prayer Working / Worked
- God is the answer for EVERYTHING.
- Remembering Working / Worked
- I believe its helping me to understand my brother and why he did the things he did....and why he felt the way he felt.
- Scrapbooking Working / Worked
- It helps to just face the loved one that you lost. You cant jsut run away from everything that reminds you of him/her.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- my friends always assure me that they're here for me if I ever need to talk, teachers atschool say the same...
- Talking Working / Worked
- if you dont talk about it, you'll never recover.
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