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Reading everyone's responses to my post "what sustains you?" has knocked my socks off these past two days. I feel much closer to my FMily as they're sharing the strength of their hearts with all of us.
Hubby doesn't always understand why I "waste" time on this board. I wish I could make him understand the need for this bond I have with you fibropals. Yes, I have face-to-face friends, but none who "get it" where my health is concerned, none who are so accepting, understanding and compassionate as all of you. Where I hate to talk about my health all the time with "normals", there is a sense of comfort and of "home" with this dear bunch that allows me the freedom to express myself here, whether on a good day or a bad day.
I guess he doesn't see the value of the give-and-take I find here on DS. Though I can't get out of the house very often to interact with folks right around me, this place offers me the opportunity to not only receive when I'm in need, but to give back and possibly help a fellow sufferer. So what if you're scattered the world over? I feel a bond with you folks that's stronger than I have with "locals", oftentimes.
Thanks y'all!!
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We Are Incomparable Posted by: "Rest Ministries" myrestmin@grouply.com myrestmin Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:35 am (PDT)
"I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works
are wonderful, I know that full well." (Psalm 139:14 NIV)
I don't know of anyone seeking to become chronically ill.
Nevertheless, many of us find ourselves dealing with all types of
debilitating illnesses. What are we to do? How are we to cope?
If we believe "the media", we may feel inadequate, unlovely, or
scorned. If we give in to temptation and compare ourselves to our
healthier and stronger brothers and sisters, we run the risk of
giving ourselves over to depression.
Sometimes, I struggle with comparing myself to others. (More often
than I like to admit.) I know the outcome - feeling inferior;
frustrated about low energy levels; angry when my size increases
because of the medicines I take. How irrational is that?
Then, I remember Psalm 139:13-16. God knit me together in my
mother's womb. Nothing that I face today comes as a surprise to Him -
not the pain, knotted muscles, painfully stiff joints, or the
fatigue that makes me feel like I'm walking under water. He knows.
Genesis 1 tells me that everything God made is good. I have to
consciously remind myself that He made me. It's only when I keep my
focus on God that I stop worrying about my physical limitations and
learn to celebrate and appreciate the way that God created me. As I
face my latest challenge, I fight against despair and fear. It is
not a surprise to God that I have to go to physical therapy. It is
not an issue for Him that my daily doses of medicines have increased.
I have to stand firm on His promise to never leave me or forsake me.
As I concentrate on His Word, I feel the panic fleeing. As I remind
myself of His faithfulness during my past trials, hope begins to
build. As I seek His guidance in prayer, peace floods my soul. As
long as I stay focused on God, I will be able to declare, like the
Psalmist, "Bless the Lord, oh my soul and ALL that is within me."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
About the Author:
Dorothea Love lives in California with her husband, Norman, and their
two teenagers. For over 20 years, she has faced the challenges of
systemic lupus, fibromyalgia, migraines, endometriosis, and
osteoporosis. She trusts in God's sufficient grace to help her get
through each day and prays that her testimonies will encourage
others.
are wonderful, I know that full well." (Psalm 139:14 NIV)
I don't know of anyone seeking to become chronically ill.
Nevertheless, many of us find ourselves dealing with all types of
debilitating illnesses. What are we to do? How are we to cope?
If we believe "the media", we may feel inadequate, unlovely, or
scorned. If we give in to temptation and compare ourselves to our
healthier and stronger brothers and sisters, we run the risk of
giving ourselves over to depression.
Sometimes, I struggle with comparing myself to others. (More often
than I like to admit.) I know the outcome - feeling inferior;
frustrated about low energy levels; angry when my size increases
because of the medicines I take. How irrational is that?
Then, I remember Psalm 139:13-16. God knit me together in my
mother's womb. Nothing that I face today comes as a surprise to Him -
not the pain, knotted muscles, painfully stiff joints, or the
fatigue that makes me feel like I'm walking under water. He knows.
Genesis 1 tells me that everything God made is good. I have to
consciously remind myself that He made me. It's only when I keep my
focus on God that I stop worrying about my physical limitations and
learn to celebrate and appreciate the way that God created me. As I
face my latest challenge, I fight against despair and fear. It is
not a surprise to God that I have to go to physical therapy. It is
not an issue for Him that my daily doses of medicines have increased.
I have to stand firm on His promise to never leave me or forsake me.
As I concentrate on His Word, I feel the panic fleeing. As I remind
myself of His faithfulness during my past trials, hope begins to
build. As I seek His guidance in prayer, peace floods my soul. As
long as I stay focused on God, I will be able to declare, like the
Psalmist, "Bless the Lord, oh my soul and ALL that is within me."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
About the Author:
Dorothea Love lives in California with her husband, Norman, and their
two teenagers. For over 20 years, she has faced the challenges of
systemic lupus, fibromyalgia, migraines, endometriosis, and
osteoporosis. She trusts in God's sufficient grace to help her get
through each day and prays that her testimonies will encourage
others.
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That's sooooo true and very easy to forget in this 'pull yourself up by the bootstraps' society that looks with scorn on those who are ill.
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Very well put. I feel exactly the same about DS.
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