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MJL110 (06/15/08)

Flowers for your Birthday! I'm sorry it didn't turn out better but you'll have plenty of beautiful birthdays in the future!
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bugged (06/15/08)

Sending you a big belated happy birthday hug. I know how it feels not to have the stbx acknowledge it. On mine he simply sent an email to tell me he feel the way we are doing things is fine - he doesn't want anything from the house, he feels he's doing most then more men in his position, i.e. paying our daughter support directly, talks to them maybe once every 2 weeks has maybe seen them 4 or 5 times in the last year and oh yeah, going to force the bank to foreclose on the house both the kids and I live in. So I guess it's no suprirse he couldn't be bothered to wish me a HB. OH well I guess, life goes on and I am just left with picking up the pieces. He has not acknowledged any of the holidays - except he did wish me a Merry Christmas. but other than that nothing - makes a person rather sad after 21 years together. But, it is what it is.
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MDawnR (06/15/08)

Happy belated birthday and hugs to you!
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njmel7 (06/04/08)

Thanks for your hug! I need it bad today! Really really stinky, feeling this way, huh?
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Looking4Me (05/28/08)

Sending you blessings. Will be thinking about you today... you'll get through this, I promise. Be strong and true to yourself!
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sue38 (05/26/08)

thanks for your reply means alot to me
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njmel7 (05/24/08)

Hey there..just thinking of you. Hope you are hanging in there. Take care of yourself this weekend!
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Holli (05/22/08)

i'm so so very sorry to hear that. just go slow and accept the emotions as they come. keep yourself so busy you can't think so that you are so tired at the end of a day you fall asleep fast. write as many journal entries a day that it takes to let the feelings out and reach out to others. these are things that helped me tremendously. i also picked up the habit of a few drinks before bed but i wouldn't recommend that one. this is not the end, it can't be. it has to be some plan that is predestined for us and the future will be wonderful. i have to believe that!
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Holli (05/21/08)

i read one of your postings and i'm sorry that your pain is so raw still. when i joined last summer i was a mess feeling just like you do. i still love this man so much but i am too stubborn to call or text. i write him letters that i do not send. for some reason it helps. i know thru my duaghters that his pain is as bad as mine. time does heal and it never seems to go by fast enough but minute by minute with the help of your friends and this site, you WILL feel better.
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Looking4Me (05/20/08)

Wishing you courage, strength and wisdom today... and every day.