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    About Me

    MY KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR TURNED OUT TO BE A LOSER IN ALUMINUM FOIL. I am a soon-to-be divorced single mom. My STBX husband was extremely emotionally, physically, and financially abusive, and I am trying to heal my heart and mind from 6 years of torture. My son is 5 years old, and has autism. He's the number 1 love in my life. "When I die I want to go peacefully in my sleep like my grandfather, not screaming like the passenger in his car!" --Sent to me from a friend :-)

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    I'm still trying to figure out who I am and what I want. His porn addiction stole all that I once was, including my confidence and self-esteem. "The first time you marry for love, the second for money, the third for companionship." ~Jacqueline Kennedy-Onassis

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    • Sexy Words

      Mood July 25, 2008 12:44pm

          A woman was sitting at a bar enjoying an after work cocktail with her girlfriends when an exceptionally tall, handsome, …
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    • Marriage Joke

      Mood July 21, 2008 4:22pm

       0A Red Skelton on making a perfect marriage1. Two times a week we go to a nice restaurant, have alittle beverage, good food and …
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    • Poem

      Mood July 14, 2008 11:35am

      Following are entries to a contest by The Washington Post, in which respondents had to write a two-line romantic poem...except that the last line had …

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      From AhHa Today

      Hugs to you too!!!

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      From DocAbe Today

      Sorry for the late reply...and your right, your Grandmother and her motorcycle have me beat. :) Hope you have a great weekend. BTW, I like your new avatar and photos. :-)

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      It is very cool that she brought that jar home! And no, that butterfly don't have a better life than you. You have a great life. You just haven't gotten to the good part yet! Its coming though. Someday you will have it!!! BIG MUCH!!!

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      great...I'm glad you are doing better! Just remember no matter what we are here for you!!

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Autism / Autism Spectrum

      Here for my son, BUT THE OTHERS IN THIS GROUP MAKE ME FEEL UNWELCOME HERE BECAUSE I KNOW VACCINES DID NOT CAUSE MY SON TO BE AUTISTIC. So, I cannot get the support I need here :-(

      Treatments

      Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Working / Worked
      Wheat gluten/casien free diet. Helps with his digestion, and his behavior is better.
      Behavior Management Working / Worked
      Working, but slowly...
      Occupational Therapy Somewhat Helpful
      He is showing improvement, but I'm not expecting any miracles...
      Pets Working / Worked
      As soon as we bought him a kitten last summer, he began talking. The cat is his only friend.
      Picture / Word Schedules Working / Worked
      Really has helped him with transitioning from one thing to the next.
      Speech Therapy Somewhat Helpful
      He is seeing a speech-language pathologist one day a week (until we can afford more days of therapy). It's helping a little, but we haven't seen a HUGE improvement so far.
      TEACCH Considering
      We found a school that uses this program. Hopefully we can get him into that school.
    • Close Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS)

      Diagnosed at 18, somehow got pregnant at 20 after losing 50 pounds. My symptoms got worse after being on birth control for a year. 4 years later, it's worse than ever.

    • Open Crohn's Disease & Ulcerative Colitis

      Here to support my friend, Gail67.

    • Open Pet Bereavement

      The family dog, KoKo, passed away on April 1, 2008. She was 13 years old. She was given to me as a puppy by my dad when I was 13. She stayed with my parents when I got married. Visiting their house now feels odd- she's not there.

    • Open Fibromyalgia

      MelindaG hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
    • Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)

      My son is 5, but has a developemental age of 18-24 months. He is in a special education preschool.

      Treatments

      Education (School) Working / Worked
      Special education preschool. He is autistic.
      Patience Somewhat Helpful
      Some days I just want to scream right along with him!
    • Open Breakups & Divorce

      My knight in shining armor turned out to be a loser in aluminum foil. And he was abusive.

      Treatments

      Support Groups Working / Worked
      The only thing helping at all is my friends here on DS, and I still find it hard to cope.
      Leave Working / Worked
      I have good days and bad days...
      Talking Not Working
      He never wanted to hear a word I had to say...
      Time Somewhat Helpful
      Every day seems more painful than the one before it.
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