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Timeman’s Profile
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About Me
Hello , Getting a divorce after 37 years of marriage. Originally she left me and wanted the divorce , but now after a year or so has gone by, it’s a mutual agreement. We have both learned so much about each other and why our marriage never really worked. We never really had that deep love that is needed in a relationship. Strange but true ! We’re both living in the same house because of the housing slump and we really get along fine now. We’re also both getting our lives together. I still have my low moments and yes…cry here and there too. But on the whole, I’m ok. There is a rainbow out there , but I found out that first I must find the rainbow inside of my self and be content with who I am , then maybe my life’s rainbow will appear . I’m doing just that….finding myself and coming closer to God. Take care God Bless.
Interests
Oh, I don’t know ! By going through this divorce (Still going through it ) I have lost a lot of interest in things that I use to do. I think that someday I want to go fishing again. I also want to get a new guitar and start to sing again . I use to sing just for fun and I use to really enjoy that. I also started dancing again I like the hustle with all the swings and turns .plus it keeps me in better shape. I also like to sell on eBay. Right now I’m still finding myself and really don’t have much interest in much other then the dancing and eBay.
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Recent Activity
Yesterday
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Timeman gave kimmeee a Hug 10:21am
Hello my dear..... Yes, I'm getting better. I still have some deep dips in my divorce road thta will…
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Timeman gave twilightmoon a Hug 10:16am
Hi Diana, I’m not an expert here on this stuff and I can only relate to what I went through and the…
Saturday
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Timeman gave twilightmoon a Hug 9:23pm
Hello my dear, Hope thta you're doing ok. or as best that you can. Keep working on improving yourself.…
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Timeman gave gcnsmom a Hug 7:44pm
Thank you , It took a long time to put my picture up. It was a thing where I didn't want my wife (STBX)…
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Timeman posted a new photo 6:39am
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Thank you so much for the hugback, and the wise words. I agree completely with what you said...especially about Forgiveness. I have struggled with this issue for a long time...but it finally makes sense, and it feels so much better. My husband is very ill at present..and it puts things into sharp perspective.. Take care, and I would like to keep in touch. Best wishes, Diana.
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What a nice smile on my friends face. I haven't dropped by in some time but it was very sweet to see a smile on your face tonight:-) Hope that you continue moving forward and that life treats you kindly as you walk your new path!! Hugs, Kimmee
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Just dropping by to say hope everything works out well for you...Big Hug...Diana.
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I love the new picture. I hope you are well love and hugs sammie.
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Thanks your message is very insightful. My children wanted to leave their dad along time ago and are proud that I finally did. Right now he is stepping up to bat like he never did before to finally bond and take responsibility that the kids have 2 parents not just one who had to do everything possible for them. He a good man, worker and dad just a horrible husband. The kids are finally seeing a different side of him and I'm glad. I just don't know how I'm going to get back on my feet.
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Going through a divorce after 37 years. Wife is leaving me .Still living in the same house. We talk a little and I'm not angery or mad at her. I'm just so hurt. It's been going on for about 10 months now. Thanks... Have a great day Timeman
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- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Sometimes things in life just happen. To come to understand that helped. Hate is not the answer, it's the distroyer !
- Leave Not Working
- Just missed her and the house. I don't know whta best here..staying or leaving...they both hurt.
- Love Somewhat Helpful
- When one looses the love. It's hard to do anything to make them see it again. I keep trying anyway..Hoping that she wakes up and sees some light. Maybe not the love again, but some compassion and understanding feelings thta I'm going through.
- Music Not Working
- Just brought back to many memories. Best to listen to ocean sounds..waves... birds...Raining and thunder... Not sad songs !
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Went to a hospital for depression and deal with the divorce for 5 weeks. Learned so much on how to deal with feelings and emotion and many other things. One of the best programs thta I have ever been in. If you have the opertunity to go to one....GO !
- Support from Friends & Family Not Working
- Friends kind of get tired of hearing about your problems...Some avoid you completly. Family is good of course ,but they also get tired of hearing you and they have thier own lives to lead. Nice to talk to ,but don't over do it.
- Support Groups Considering
- They say thta it's good to meet others with sort of the same problem..I'm going to try it soon.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Always worked with me. I a;ways felt better to tell someone...The problem is who !!! I found some on-line churches thta I could call.
- Time Working / Worked
- It gets a little easier as time goes on wit hset backs that come and go. The crying doesn't last as long.
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