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I just posted this in the Physical and Emotional Abuse community but I'll copy it here as I think this is very important:
"I guess this may sound odd and I wouldn't post it except I know I need to wise up better and also because over my life I have had an occasional dream that stands out as really important.
The important dream wakes me up and I lie there really shaken and can't sleep for ages trying to come to terms with it. I seldom have this sort of dream; normally sleep well; and I have always found such dreams have a vital message for me.
The trouble is I have to understand the dream. When I didn't get that understanding till years later, I suffered big time by not heeding what was a warning. I know this is one of those dreams and I hope you can help me understand it. I basically think it is my deeper mind trying to tell me something that is true as it always has turned out to be a dream with a true message.
This dream is that I was asleep and I heard my oldest girl (20) having a bad meltdown outside my window in the driveway. She was really upset and yelling. I got up to see this big open top, low convertible powering off with all three of my daughters inside. They are 15, 18 and 20 and now, in real life, all have left home. In the dream somehow I knew that was a police car. I waved at it, kinda saying I care, knowing that right then I couldn't stop it. Then I went inside very upset and tried to call the local police, but I couldn't find the number. Then I tried to call the emergency police number but I couldn't tell where the numbers were on the phone. My son (22, and who is still at home) came up while I was tring to ring and he said that they didn't capture him as he hid. He seemed worried because he hid. Then he told me he felt sick and had been missing school because of it. He does have ulcerative colitis and used to miss school and now work because of it. In the dream, maybe it was as if they were all teenagers still at home.
I really feel this is important. "
I would appreciate any comments.
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I don't know about dreams or the future, but I know the dream shows how much you feel concern for your children. They are all responsible for their own futures now. Could be why the number is not available-it is out of your hands or you feel a loss of control in their lives? Might the UC be a blessing in disguise too? Our trials can be when we have passed through them.
To seek the message, I suggest clearing your mind with meditation or prayer. Calmly wait for the answer. Or ask your spirit guide for an explanatory dream at bedtime.
b9st8
Thank you very much b9st8.
I wonder.... You may be right. I have been trying to let go re the girls, but at the same time I am wondering if I should be doing more. Maybe that is it about the girls. It isn't obvious what more I could do. But if they want something they know they just have to ask and I have helped. I did recently volunteer to help the 15 year old with important paperwork and went with her to keep an appointment. I only offered and she accepted; it was a lot for her alone. I mind the 20 year old's dog whever she wants and I am a source of home and garden requirements for her. I loaned the 18 year old an important book I hope will keep her from killing or hurting herself and I carefully commented (briefly) to her about some things, like drink and dangerous driving (which she did). I give lifts. Oh, and food whenever. But I am worried about them. And I have been wondering if I am callous to feel I am at a new stage with them all now, more focussed on my own stuff and trying to sort my life out. I'm not particularly controlling (my husband is).
The UC has been useful as an excuse for my son to hide behind. Am not sure that was good. But, as you said, maybe the blessing of it is still hidden. Something tells me to be concerned for him. But he knows he can come to me.
And yes, thanks, I will do the meditation and prayer. I haven't used spirit guides though I am interested in doing so. I actually have a couple of good books on it; went to a relevant weekend workshop; and have a drumming CD and a drum. I guess I am worried about where that fits with my religion.
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