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Chloe53D (3:10 pm)
Read your journal entry about maybe quitting this site. Boy, do I know where you are coming from. Why do people have to be so cruel. I am quitting this site cuz people want to be your best friend, then forget you exist. Or if I ask for advice, I sometimes get blasted and abused for sharing personal painful stuff. I have NEVER and would NEVER abuse of mistreat anyone on this site. I am a genuine real person. Anyway, I only wish the best for you always.
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queenvalerie (7:23 am)
BIG HUGS RIGHT BACK AT YA!!!! I am always on your side, don't forget that ok? v
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Beaumont (05/14/08)
Have a fantabulous day! Keep smiling! :)
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| Physical & Emotional Abuse |
| Am in a long term abusive, dysfunctional relationship. Have 3 teenage and one older children - 1 at home ( am so sad). Have been working at improving/change what I can all along & trying to understand. Need to get sure of what to believe and not get brought down by how my h, kids, etc are to me. I think I will have to divorce him within the next year and this confuses and frightens me. Am a professional working from home & doing a part time master's thesis in an unrelated field - philosophy. | |
| Treatments | |
| Abuse Counseling (Not Working) Awful | |
| Music (Working / Worked) A great lifeline | |
| Psychotherapy (Not Working) Waste of time | |
| Religion (Working / Worked) Another great lifeline for me | |
| Talking (Working / Worked) Not with him | |
| Working on Personal Growth (Working / Worked) Couldnt do wothout it | |
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| Breakups & Divorce |
| Am in a long term abusive, dysfunctional relationship. Have 3 teenage and one older children - 1 1/2 at home. Have been working at improving/change what I can all along & trying to understand. Need to get sure of what to believe and not get brought down by how my h, kids, etc are to me. I think I will have to divorce him within the next year and this confuses and frightens me. Am a professional working from home & doing a part time master's thesis in an unrelated field - philosophy. | |
| Treatments | |
| Couples Counseling (Not Working) Hopeless for us. My husband would not really participate except for last time when I got him to start and he said I was crazy, etc - and then the counsellor used his accusations as topics for discussion (which we full of my husband's negativity). It doesn't work with an abuser. | |
| Forgiveness (Working / Worked) Ok, I'll put this in. But I'd call it something else. | |
| Leave (Working / Worked) Can be just fantastic but I get it seldom so do it in other ways, sort-0f. | |
| Love (Working / Worked) Ok, yes, only I'd come at it from a different angle. | |
| Music (Working / Worked) Often ! Fantastic | |
| Pets (Working / Worked) yes | |
| Psychotherapy (Not Working) Sometimes, over the years, I got some helpful insights but really it wasn't worth it. It really cannot be counted on to work regardless - and that is a FACT ! | |
| Reading (Working / Worked) Very much | |
| Religion (Working / Worked) Very important to me | |
| Support from Friends & Family (Not Working) Didn't get. My sister in law said I was obviously not firm enough with him. She was very firm with my H's brother - she was/is a bigger narcissist than him and he wanted a Mommy. | |
| Support Groups (Somewhat Helpful) Also have a definite risk and can be a waste of time. | |
| Talking (Working / Worked) If I can but it depends | |
| Time (Somewhat Helpful) Helps in some ways but then again I have dreadful moments now | |
| Mind work (Working / Worked) Very important. Various sorts. Can be taught by good therapy but there are many other ways. | |
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