Journal Entry for June 29, 2008
June 29, 2008 12:20am
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About Me
I am a 41 year old woman whose husband just left my children (boys 14 & 17) and I after 23 years of being together for another woman. I am in extreme pain. Please help me.
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My Children and helping others
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He told me we're done
April 2, 2008 8:15am
Well, 2 nights ago my husband told me that he was not coming home and that he wants to move on. I am extremely sad not knowing how to live life …
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starting the proceedings
March 23, 2008 12:28am
Well, it is Easter Eve and I am sitting here feeling blue because my husband isn't here. I don't know why I am sad because he didn't …
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Thursday, February 28, 2008
February 28, 2008 11:33pm
I absolutely HATE going through this hell. I feel like suing him for pain and suffering. My life came to a complete hault and his just …
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Journal Entry for February 22, 2008
February 22, 2008 11:31pm
Well I never understood why people would say that they felt like they were having a bad dream and that they wanted to wake up from it....well I do …
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Hope you are well!
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I miss you, hurry up and email me. My computer died and had to be re-configured and I lost all of my email addresses. Hurry up! I need to hear from you! xx
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Flower
Hi Carol, how nice to hear from you, sorry I havent been in these rooms for ages, but am going to change that. I would love to be your friend, I am 51 but no age barriers with me. I have kids, grandkids, hubby and stress alive with life. Am wondering if you would like to have a chat sometime? Cheers Sandy
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Just wanted you to know I am thinking about you and hope you are doing OK.
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Flower
Thinking of you Carol, know you are busy with break hope to hear from you soon, miss you alot xxx Teena
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Close Breakups & Divorce
My husband and I have been married 18 years and together 23. On Thanksgiving 07 I found a womans cell number in his phone. We got home from Thanksgiving dinner and he had packed up and left. We then caught him with that same woman a week before Christmas. We have both filed for divorce but I don't want one. I am having a terrible time "letting go" of our marriage. I thought I would grow old and die with this man. I don't understand what she had that I didn't. My boys and I are devastated.
Treatments
- Leave Working / Worked
- Went with my children skiing in Colorado at the beginning when he just left and it did lift one of my dark clouds.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Reading Working / Worked
- Self help books are good and the divorceCare book is helping.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Lean on your friends. Mine are wonderful. The only thing is that I am afraid that they will get sick of seeing me cry.
- Support Groups Not Working
- Time Somewhat Helpful
- Time is not going fast enough because I want to heal.
Close Infidelity
I have been married for 18 years, have 2 sons (14 & 17). On Thanksgiving I found out that my husband was talking with another woman since March. A week before Christmas my sons and I caught him with this woman. I am in constant pain and I am scared to death of the unknown future. I am sad and my children are very angry with my husband. Can someone tell me that I will be ok?
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