Feeling ok lately. It helps to read and respond to the posts here. Ive been going out a little just to socialize with people. I have a great time when I do, but I feel guilty sometimes. I guess those are feelings I have to work through. Im not particularly looking for a relationship, just looking to build friendships with people. My stbx was uncomfortable around most of my old friends so they kinda drifted away. Trying to reconnect with them too.

Hope a lot of these feelings subside and I can learn to enjoy life more!
I don't think you should feel guilty, it is probably healthier that you go out and see people.
KathyCHT
Thank you, I know I shouldnt feel guilty, its just that I am the type of person that is true and loyal and its going to take me a while to get over the nagging feeling that im doing something wrong. Thank you for your words of wisdom!
mrD153